I always feel super sexy before, during and after birth. Im thinking that I need to dress the way I'm feeling instead of dressing ugly. Just not sure if it's acceptable or not. Last time i only dressed sexy after birth.
I'm not gonna lie, my knee-jerk reaction was a definite: 'oh. Nooo.'
But who the hell cares what I, or anyone else thinks about it. The only thing that matters is how you, and your man, feel about it. It really is as simple as that.
People might not understand. But so what? They aren't going to refuse to give you medical assistance with your birth because you're dressed sexy. Can you imagine the scandal?
Once I read your little blurb about WHY you would want to dress sexy during birth... it kinda made me shrug and think...'well sure, why not?'.
I don't know you. But we've had a few exchanges, over a couple of years on here.
(the one that will forever be burned into my brain involved a certain... infamous serial killer... You may not even remember that particular conversation. But I'll never forget it)
You think about some things in an unconventional way. I think that's great. I think that as long as you, and your man are happy with you dressing sexy while giving birth, fuck what anyone else thinks. They really would never risk the scandal. They'll 'allow-it'. 🙂
That's extremely trashy to me. If a woman did that for her husband, that's one thing. But if she's pregnant and is posting crap like this online, then it tells me she's a narcissist, disrespectful to her man (assuming there's even a father in the picture,) a piece of sh*t mother, and that child is going to suffer under her.
It's as bad as mothers doing OnlyFans with no care to their children getting bullied in school from it. Like, f*ck you if you're this abusive to your children or exploiting your child just to make money! Not to mention, pregnancy isn't "sexy" to me whatsoever; it's a necessity to life, but it's disgusting, like sh*tting or period blood.
To me, women posting pictures like this is one of the trashiest things I can imagine. It's so goddamn narcissistic. If it was done in private, just for her man, that'd be fine, but THIS? God damn, no one cares about you, your sh*tty parenting mindset, and your disgusting preggo body, except simp men who have this fetish. (And yes, I know this isn't OP; I meant "you" as in, anyone who does this.)
This sh*t is so f*cking trashy! It almost angers me just seeing it.
I have no plans on posting it online
I'm talking about looking sexy for the birth like at the hospital
What kind of person would be focused on "looking sexy at the hospital" instead of the safe birth of their child?
It's nice that you care about this side of your life which a lot of women sideline when their children come in to the picture which ends up making life with their husbands more strained since this is the thing that brings him pleasure and peace. However, I would say one thing if you're not offended. Posting thirst pics of yourself when you're about to become a mother is not a good look. Firstly, your children might end up seeing this which isn't exactly a dignifying look and secondly, if you're looking for validation from strangers, that's a precursor to you stepping out of your relationship which would be horrible for not only yourself but your child. I hope for the best in your journey :)
I have no plans on posting any pics
that's not you up there in the OP?
Nah just a random pic. I rarely share pics here
I’m always just naked, fuck acceptable they are staring at you anyway and the gown is always massive and just falls off me lol Wear whatever you want they can’t really make you do anything. I won’t even wear the monitors or anything to labor because I like being able to move around. The only reason they might not let you is if you have the pain medication because you will have higher risk of surgery.
I get feeling sexy after kinda my husband fucked my face over the hospital bed as soon as the baby fell asleep last time.
Did the same thing after my 3rd birth. Definitely felt super sexy
Geez! That sounds so sexy! Lol
ok. that’s fucking hot 🥵
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It doesn’t matter what I or anyone else thinks about it. The only people who matter are you and the father. If you wanna dress sexy, go for it. I would caution this, I don’t think the hospital would allow it. You pretty much have to wear what they say.
Thr hosptial makes women be naked or in a bra
Like I said, I knew that they wouldn’t allow you to wear sexy clothing. You wear whatever the hospital allows you to wear.
Well when your a model like Tammy Hembrow then you can wear whatever you want during birth.
I don't see why not. I don't think hospitals have a dress code for patients.
I can't imagine any staff being offended by your choice in underwear. It might actually brighten their hum drum day.
You should do what makes you feel best. That day is all about you. Celebrate.
Underwear isn't really a option. More just a choice on bra/robes/socks but yes gotta do what I'm comfortable with
Why not? If it makes you feel, sexy, happy then do it!
It depends on if you want every guy to think about how he could put the next baby in you... or how he could do WHATEVER he wanted and you still wouldn't get pregnant with his kid. Seems too risky to me but whatever. You also have to deal with creeps with fetishes that TO ME seem borderline pedo.
I think dress however you want, aslong as it’s comfortable. You’re certainly not going to feel sexy while having contractions and then pushing a baby out of your body, but if you want to feel sexy after then there’s no harm in that. I can’t say I’ve ever heard mothers saying they felt “sexy” while giving birth though, that’s a little strange lol.
The pushing part actually makes me feel the most sexy. I had a accidental orgasmic birth with my 2nd baby. After that experience I can't stop wanting more babies 😂
@Apple1996 Why so they can give you an orgasm. That is totally messed up.
@MysteriousDarkness nah more cuz I love the whole experience of pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding. Keeps all my hormones in a balanced place. Orgasmic birth is just a added plus to all that
As long as it doesn't impede childbirth, wear whatever you want.
No one will arrest you…
but maybe better to talk to your husband. If that’s the attention you need… it can be done anywhere. Especially better to feel that love/sex appeal with your man, your husband. If I was the husband, I would feel disrespected that my wife wants to be sexy to others when preparing for birthing our child. Based on what you said about your husband to @Prince_99 (I can careless what he thinks)
Before/during birth…sexy is not truly what most have in mind - those who have been in hospitals/works in hospitals.
on the other hand…being pregnant can feel very sexy and beautiful.
Not too worried what others think. It's gonna be one of the most important days of my life so why not look good 🤷♀️
did you talk to your husband? giving birth is painful and a most beautiful thing, during birthing... sexy is really not in anyones mind. or am i confused by your question? i can see wanting to look sexy while being pregnant... gosh... birthing... smh
Oh i was feeling sexy during my other births so this time just trying to match the way I look to how I feel
I don't know I just find that weird but do what you feel like i guess :/
Dress as you please.
You're going to the hospital dressed liked this
anyway, right?
Besides, they'll make you wear a hospital gown for patients.
You're *NOT going to the hospital...
Nah the plan is to dress like that at the hospital. I've never worn a gown during birth for my others
It’s a little odd to me. It’s a messy job. Something that isn’t remotely sexy.
I do get what you mean though.
Whatever makes you feel comfortable
Maybe not during birth lol that's a moment where you will be the most uncomfortable and will get messy. I'm 9 months in so it's only a matter of time, I want to dress comfortably.
Never had a messy birth yet. All my babies come out clean
Really? Most babies come with some type of fluid or blood on them or Vernix caseosa coating on them.
Yeah mine were clean. I was hoping for them to have vernix since it helps protect them from eczema later on to rub that into the skin but unfortunately didn't happen. I don't allow baths or towel rub downs either since it's too rough on their skin
Why ever not? I think that pic is a good example
It’s your birth, your experience. You do whatever you feel would make it the best experience for you, your man, and your baby. 🥰
I did not feel sexy when I gave birth to my son 😂 I was a hot mess lmfao and I ended up puking a couple times 😂
@420Rachel I didn't know you had a kid! You seem so young.
The only people who would say that you shouldn’t be dressing sexy is people who are traditional and think that any skin exposure is inappropriate and therefore would also be thinking that any comfortable outfits for a pregnant woman would be inappropriate because of whatever exposure. Or the people who find baby bellies unattractive because their brains never fully developed and think most woman in some way or another are unattractive for their natural bodies.
that being said if being pregnant makes you feel sexier and dressing sexier then amplifies that sexiness then no man or supposed law should ever stop you. Woman should be allowed to feel as sexy as they want and anything that helps them in that that isn’t hurting themselves or someone else they should be able to do.
That pic is so hot too… lol! I feel like you must have been feeling super honey finding a picture for this… 😏🥰😊
Haha honestly a sexy pic of myself would have been better but didn't wanna show off to everyone like that
Agreed! A hundred percent!!! Lol! But yeah that might have gotten taken down.😊😉
Totally fine. In fact, I can see some upsides if (a) it makes you feel better/sexier and (b) it makes a husband/partner more engaged in the process. Better outcomes.
Yep definitely gotta keep my husband into it too
How long now for you?
Still got till March but this 4th baby keeps giving me contractions all day and night. Already got things packed just incase
I did when I was pregnant right up till they made me put on that ugly hospital gown. I often dressed like a hot pregnant schoolgirl. Hehe
I'm sure you can but I don't think that's the first thing a woman has in her mind while pushing out a fucking baby lol
You'd be surprised. Most women wear nice bras/robes when giving birth. a lot don't want to look bad. Some even do their makeup and hair
Yes, it is very acceptable in my opinion.
Depends on your audience actually.
A bunch of nurses/doctors. Last time had like 25 of them in my room watching the birth of my son
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