Yes, it's rare, because most virgin women do not have the assertiveness to ask for what will get them off, and may not know themselves. I'm sure none of your sex-ed has taught you what things to do to have an orgasm.
Firstly, only 30% of women can orgasm from simple penetration. Most women require more direct clitoral stimulation. Here's the whole clitoris, any part of it can be stimulated manually and orally, in whatever way works best for you:
I strongly recommend that you have an orgasm through foreplay first - this will ensure you are fully aroused and relaxed. Plus, have condom-safe lubricant handy.
Women who masturbate also tend to have better and more satisfying sex with their partners.
Okay yeah that makes sense cuz I masturbated a fair amount before ever getting sexual with a man and I knew him very well by the time we got to do that stuff so I had no problems telling him what I wanted. Or just doing exactly what I wanted to at that point.
I also meant to post this: www.researchgate.net/.../...elation-to-the-sur.png
I am very sensitive and have had orgasms so many times. I was well prepared for my first time, so there was no pain or discomfort. I had multiple orgasms the first time, and most times since unless it is just a quickie.
Multiple! Whoa that sounds great. I wish I could've done that but I was on my period so we kinda had to stop and go clean up 😆
Its actually not that rare for women to NEVER come during sex. I've only ever come through masturbation.
That would really bum me out. Have you really liked/loved the person you've done it with? I've heard that affects it too, and I'm totally in love so maybe that helped me
Liked but not been in love with. I think if I found a long term relationship where I loved the guy it would be different as we'd take the time to get to know what eachother liked and become less nervous around eachother etc. Hopefully anyway haha! But honestly I'm not really fussed about sex anyway so I guess it doesn't really bother me.
As long as you're not having regrets then all is good! But I will say that girl I hope you find that special connection someday because it's unbelievable 😉 And we all deserve what I felt last week ❤
I know I was bad my first time. I know I came and don't see how she did for the short time I was on top of her like I was having a seizure.
You did get lucky but also it helped that you was older to and him too to understand and appreciate the body and what was happening.
Yeah I bet the age helped a lot too. I think if I did it when I was 16 I would've been very uncomfortable and honestly wouldn't have known my own body yet.
I think with sex in general, women don't cum as often as they'd like.
... When I say sex, I mean PIV sex.
To my knowledge, most women cum from their clit.
(Either mans pubic bone grinding against it, tounge during foreplay, or vibrator during PIV)
Pubic bone for sure helped that's true
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a lot of women can't cum just BT vaginal penetration
it normal , don't worry
When women get sexual satisfaction, she cums. Doesn't matter whether it's ur first time or second. Even though, most of them do not cum during first time. I think that ' nervousness ' might be the reason behind this. It's completely normal by the way.
I dont think its rare to cum on the first time. If done right, and you. know how to stimulate your G spot, then you can cum everytime.
I came my first time but I also heard "it's not good the first time" like on tv and from friends. Too bad for them
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