Is it alright to have sex with opposite gender friends?

Considering you've been friends for a while but one or both of you doesn't want anything further. And if you do is it considered friends with benefits?
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No it makes things complicated
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  • It is something you can do, as long as you both are on the same page that it is just a friends with benefits thing.

    This kind of thing WILL change the structure of your friendship, it won't be the same and you also have to take into consideration that, if you get a relationship, You will have to stop that friends with benefits behaviour with the person and who knows what kind of friendship you may have after that or if you both go your separate ways.

    It will complicate things, people tend to do the friends with benefits thing if both are single and horny but can't find a relationship or don't want a proper relationship, which is all well and good till you change your mind, you just need to think clearly what kind of friendship you want, a sexual one or a one that doesn't revolve around sexual interaction, because after you do it once, things will definitely become very different between you both.

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  • That can really mess up a friendship, just know that before you do it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes most people refer that as “friends with benefits” lol. You can do it, but just be aware of the risks. I personally can never do that with a friend, they’re my friend for a reason and I dislike risking friendships even by dating friends in the past since it’s usually never the same.

  • Well thats better than same sex lmao. But i wouldn't sex any friends cause then they're no longer just a friend. It prob would be considered friends with benefits and i dont do those

    • What if its not a thing though, like you do it once, then maybe again months later

    • Still friends with benefits causw you're hooking uo more than once

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  • No it complicates things.

  • It doesn’t make things complicated, it does make things extremely complicated.

  • It's totally fine.

    • Can you pm me?

  • İts not ethical

    • ethical to whom? If its with consenting and of age parties, there is nothing unethical about it, unless one is already with someone else and cheating on them