Is it bad being virgin at age 30?

I'm a picky person when it comes to love affairs. I've only had one boyfriend and we didn't have much sexual experience. It doesn't mean I am reluctant to it but I didn't want to do it with a random one. Is it normal that I'm still virgin? How guys see these type of women?

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  • Being a women at my age and sexually active since 16 your not missing a lot really most guys suck at it!

    Way better having that relationship and training him some then just sex and one night stands!

    Any one saying other wise just wants you guilty you were smarted then them and are waiting!

    You name it this girl has tried it and nothing compares to the intimacy of a trusting caring lover who wants you to enjoy it and finish too!

    90% of guys just wanna finish inside and run or kick you out into a walk of shame!

Most Helpful Girl

  • no, your life is your life no one elses. i am older then you and one. society has this weird perception that if you haven't had sex at an early age somehow it is weird or strange or not acceptable. you don't have to justify anything to anyone but yourself in this life

Most Helpful Guys

  • That is pretty high for a age for not having sex yet but I wouldn’t say it’s bad. It’s good to wait until your really sure to have sex with a guy you really like but some guys might think your a prude but those guys are really just want sex. You may have lost some experiences that you would enjoy in your younger years and more sexual activities. Guys do like though to take a girl’s virginity but try to avoid those guys try to find one that actually loves you fir who you are.

  • Only one answer... A short one

    No

    Explained ; Your picky, maybe hard to please in your own wishes / demands in search of a man. That is Good.. Take your time to find what you need..

    These days young people give to quickly in having sex... With unwanted results on the way...

    I give you a standing applause 👏

    • Said this as a father who's daughter {16} friends had more sex then me in my entire life. 😄 Well you know what I say...

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  • Your still young but save for someone respects you sees through you for your mind and soul not your parts.

  • My suggestion is this.
    Do not voluntarily tell a man you are a virgin in advance of sex. If you are going to turn a guy down, just turn him down by telling him you aren't ready for sex with him. If you reach The Moment and you are going to green-light a guy, tell him you are a virgin and ask him to be easy on you. I would be honored.

    • Thank you. Yes I don't want to tell it if there is not a reason. I feel like he will think I am weird that I haven't have sex until this age like should I feel like this? And if I reach the moment as you say, should I say it at that moment because I feel embarrassed of being virgin like what will he think about me? :/

    • "I want you to make love to me. You will be my first and I don't really know my way around. So can you be easy on me?"

    • You can mention it and you can explain why. If he understands and stay... You know your wishes / demands are heard and you won the price

  • No, you are waiting for the right guy. You will not be sorry.

  • My wife and I married and gave each other our virginity’s on our wedding night. I was 30. She was 29.

    • Oh that's nice. I'm also 30 and going to 31 soon and I feel bad for that sometimes I feel like I am the only one who is virgin at this age. I don't know what guys at this generation think about it

    • I would be proud of you. That takes a lot of dedication to wait for the right one.

    • Thank you so much you relieved me about this. I don't know you are from the US or not but I'm not and I like a guy who lives there and he feels the same way and probably he will come here. I always think it's weird not to do this over there especially at this age so it makes me think embarrassed for that reason

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  • If you have used up all your prime years and couldn't find even a single guy to either get married to or have sex with then men know there is obviously something wrong with you.

  • Me doesn't care. Life happens the way it happens.

  • Not at all... everyone has different timelines. Wait for the right guy

  • Perfectly normal, better for a woman to stay a virgin till marriage

  • My girlfriend was one until 33.

  • Not at all

  • no its fine

  • Fuck yea

  • Yes. Not because of sex. But because of lack of confidence and shyness. How are you supposed to get a good job by interviewing if you can’t get a date?

  • You have to do what's right for you.

  • Nothing wrong at all with that...

  • Wow love to be with you

  • It's absolutely not a bad thing. Women who don't sleep around are becoming more and more desired, and it protects your ability to pair-bond properly with the man (or woman) you finally decide to be with long-term.

  • Of course it's normal, you just have found the right yet. Nothing to be ashamed of.

  • how long were you with your ex-boyfriend? and how come you and him didn't have sex?

  • More common than we think and more unexpected for a woman since women don't have to do the pursuing and that's how it's always been

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