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Is it bad I feel nothing when it come to sex? A Hs friend asked to have sex for money and I needed the money! yet I felt nothing is this cheating?

I Know I sound stupid Asking this. But I Genuinely love my boyfriend he has helped me grow as a person we’ve accomplished so much together we are BEYOND Happy together ! Sex isn’t what brings us together! It’s so weird!!! We occasionally have sex! We don’t crave or need it we crave our company !! But I needed to pay my rent and a old Highschool buddy who is not the best with girls lol hadn’t gotten laid in over 5 years And Offered Me 1,500 To have sex with him!! And I’m sorry but I yes I did it! He literally went in me maybe 5 times ! He busted so fast ! And I Came Up With Rent For The Month !! is that so bad? 1,500 in 3 mins I USED PROTECTION..
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  • As a couple I think it is best to sort out stuff and money situations you could have sold stuff or anything I won’t judge you but if you really loved the person you wouldn’t have done it could have worked extra shifts or asked for a little help or managing money more. In the end just make a better choice next time because stuff like this can hurt a person deeply and loose trust.

    • Just to give advice the person you are with is probably really really loyal who knows but if you guys break up you will understand how much of a great person you missed so when ever a situation comes up again think about it if it was in your point of view or just value the person in that moment the person who has been there for you rather someone who offers money and prob knows your in a relationship and doesn’t respect you.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • That's called human trafficking. Get yourself out of this mess.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Listen that's definitely cheating and that guy is definitely not your friend if he was a real friend he would've given it to you or let you borrow it. He treated you like a prostitute I'm sorry but what you did was prostitution he paid you for sex. You seen like a nice girl you better than that

    • Thanks for the MHO.

    • Are you okay and if you need to talk I'm here no judgment I promise

  • You were done in 3 minutes? That dude must not masturbate at all.
    I hope he at at least attempted to satisfy you.

    Did you tell you boyfriend you had sex with some one else?

    Will you do it again?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Probably not the best choice if it would matter to your relationship with the boyfriend but no judgement here... sometimes you do what ya gotta do! No shame in that.

  • Yeah, your a cheating cunt and a quite literally a whore (and probably a troll because how some one couldn't understand this very basic concept is to mind boggling to consider).

    • Loser

    • A rather empty insult coming from the woman who claimed to have cheated on her boyfriend for money.

  • If you feel ok with it, and you weren't forced into it by anybody against your will, then its fine.

  • Lmfao. Yes what you did was cheating. And you already know that.

  • Sounds like you'll have an Only fans before you know it.

    • Honestly no I’m To depressed for all that

  • Honestly yes this is cheating but the relationship was dead since he was cheating. Also you should treat yourself better you can do better than both your man should be able to help with your bills.

  • U cheated on ur cheating boyfriend.. look it happened.. its what u don now that matters.. u needed the money fast but it was a dumb move.. but its over u.. just move on..

  • Yeah, it’s bad

    • Thank u

  • Trollll, your first two questions are you talking about how badly your ex cheating hurt you now you're talking about how you having sex with other dudes for money isn't cheating.

    • Exactly! We aren’t in a healthy loyal relationship

  • Yes it's cheating, and u know it

  • You blew it big-time

    • Did I?

    • Well unfortunately you’ve made yourself a professional whore now

  • Well, its bad because you cheated. But to be honest, the relationship with your boyfriend sounds more like a friends with benefit situation. You must be incredibly hot to make that kind of money so fast.

  • The better Q is how do you feel about it. That is what is important. If this is keeping you up at night, then your subconscious mind is telling you something, and you best pay attention to what it is saying or endure the consequences.

    • Honestly I feel nothing that’s why I’m asking! My boyfriend and I don’t really have sex and when we do it’s AMAZING but with this guy it was whatever and I was able to help with rent

  • That’s prostitution!

    • It's worse. It's human trafficking.

    • @Warmapplecrumble yikes!

  • No dear. Keep going. Your ATM is with you use him as your debit card.

  • Yeah. You're breaking the trust that formed in the relationship. Going behind his back and messing with another guy. That's not being loyal and I'm sure he'd be upset if he found out.

  • Ur trash

    • Ur mom

  • DON'T DEGRADE YOURSELF THAT WAY!! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT! PROSTITUTION IS ILLEGAL

    • Prostitution?

    • It's worse it's human trafficking.

  • What a fucking looser 1500. That guy is stupid. But then again so is your storey. Lol.

    • So I’m guessing you’d break up with me?

    • I wouldn’t be going out with you in the first place.

    • How so

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