Is it bad I hate being a dad?

Okay, I have a 6-month-old son with an old girlfriend and the condom broke and she didn't want to get an abortion and I'm black and I really didn't want to reinforce the stereotype of black men abandoning their kids so I am stuck being a dad even though I absolutely hate it.

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  • Yeah, it is. If you weren't ready to be a dad then you shouldn't have been out whoring around. Sucks for your kid mostly though.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh dear, and men wonder why some women have a problem with men.

    Please never go anywhere near another woman ever again.

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  • How old are you?

    • I'm 29.

    • Yikes!, well you need to mature and learn from you mistakes or blessings however you see it. Talk to your child’s mother explain your not mature enough to take care of your son BUT will be responsible to support with or without involvement of court. If you want nothing to do with the kid at least help her out in some way. Remember It’s not the child fault you don’t want to be a dad but it takes accountability that you are going to abandon it for selfish reasons.

    • I’m sorry but I’m sooo curious what don’t you like being a dad? What happen to make you feel that way now then before because you had at least two to three days to get an planB pill?

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  • Yes, you can embrace the stereotype, or the child. Choosing the child is your choice.

  • Tell your children this

  • Is she white?

    • Yes, which is why I can't leave because of the fact that I don't want to reinforce the stereotype of black men getting white women pregnant and then leaving them.

    • Ok, no problem 👍

    • Someone purposely do this to keep a man

  • It's bad for the kid.