Is it bad I have sex with hookers once a month?

I’ve been rejected a lot of times. I don’t know how to get a girlfriend. Nor do I understand girls, the more I try to the less i understand 😕

But I need to feel the touch and body of a woman.

It’s bad to do this
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  • It may be illegal in your area, so be careful. Don’t use a “service”. That’s code for pimp. Pay more than you’re comfortable paying. You’re more likely to attract independent escorts that way. Don’t pay with a credit card. Be CLEAR about what you want and need from the encounter and make sure she acknowledges you on your terms. LISTEN to her terms, especially if you don’t take my advice about avoiding women with pimps. Know that there is no customer service department. If it didn’t go your way, move on and be smarter next time.
    There are certainly going to be many women, and probably even men, here who will tell you it’s immoral or whatever. It’s absolutely not. In its simplest form, prostitution is the most honest interaction heterosexual men and women can have. No games, no BS, just a simple agreement to make sure everyone leaves satisfied. No lies, no hypocrisy, no hurt feelings. It’s actually kind of beautiful, and no wonder so many people fall in love with escorts when they see the same one repeatedly.

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  • Number one you're putting yourself at risk for STDs. Number two you're lowering yourself paying for this and the person does not care about you. Keep trying do you have any friends that are girls maybe they could give you some tips. What you're doing is attempting to feel avoid in your life and it's just putting a Band-Aid on something that needs surgery it's just a temporary quick fix. But I get it it's not easy to find a good girl someone that will accept you for who you are. But I cannot condone being with hookers. Try some online dating sites there's some that are free

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't listen to the morons on this site. Do the math. If you want something meaningful, you have to put in the work, and there are heartaches that go with that. If you just want a "roll in the hay" hookers are much cheaper than a girlfriend. Go to Thailand.

    • @ApplePie409 exactly too many fools and hypocritical sexists on this site

    • Thai girls look fire 🔥

    • @NetherlandsNar Yes...

  • You should probably work on getting a girlfriend, as it seems you crave human connection. There’s nothing wrong with hiring a hooker as long as she’s of age and isn’t coerced into being a prostitute

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  • I kind of think it is bad. But I don't know your values. But you are running the risk of catching STDs, STIs, etc. by having sex with random sex workers.

  • i am always saying guys should have sex with hookers rather than not have sex in their life at all

    • Yes cause it’s worse to never have sex at all. Also it’s not that expensive for a hot one

  • Not for the hookers it isn't.. You're paying their wages!

  • Let me offer this perspective: When I was a grad student and a post-doc, I avidly pursued innocent, starry-eyed young undergrad girls. I corrupted, to one degree or another, a number of girls who were probably not ready. I would never have considered booking an escort; feeling that would be immoral and exploitative. I would have felt dirty and guilty for using a woman who had to give sex for money. In retrospect, I may have had that backwards. Maybe it isn’t so bad to route your appetites in that direction.

  • Exempting a moral argument, No, It's Not, especially if it heads off some darker activity, like rape, drug abuse or suicide. If a Once a Month session enables you to make a positive contribution to society, Go with my endorsement. Just treat her with the same respect you would a mental health provider.

  • It's your dick! You put it anywhere you want! As long as non-hookers know what they're getting into... or what's getting into them!

  • If you are not married and wear a condom it's okay as long as you don't get yourself killed

  • You should buy some feminist books. They will open your mind and give you a better understanding of women’s experience in life. That’s the only way to understand women, by understanding their struggles.

  • You need to learn how to socialize with women. You can't go on this way.

  • You should try to be friendly towards other women. Be more open and understanding towards them. Also, don’t forget to express yourself while also being respectful towards them. You can do this.

  • Doesn’t matter. You wouldn’t pay them monthly

  • it's not the sex with hookers in itself but the fact that you have to rely on a hooker to have sex. it's a bad habit

  • Yes. It is a waste of money/energy. You could be spending this energy/money to become the man that a woman would find attractive. Focus on bettering yourself.

    It sounds like the reason you bang hookers is the same reason I've watched porn. Deep down, its rooted in self-loathing and a kind of despair.

    You're better than that dude. And if you're not yet, you can be.

  • No it's completely fine. Women mostly will tell you it's wrong on this site because they are bitter and hate men but trust me it's completely fine and that's coming from a woman.

    • Why are they bitter

    • Prejudices play a strong role

    • Surprised by the male respondents, such prejudice

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  • Yes because they can give you STDs and paying for sex is pathetic.

    • I wear condoms also go through agencies where they test the girls all the time for everyone’s safety.

    • @babygirl_s yeah just cause it costs 50 bucks to pound a girl hotter and 10X better than you in bed

    • Strictly out of curiosity regarding your opinions: is a woman providing a sex act for money as pathetic as a man buying it? Or more? Less? Not at all?

  • I think technically it's considered adultery. So, you know, sinful. About on a level with coveting your neighbour's ass.

  • Male hookers?

  • It’s sad, but you do what you gotta do.

  • I don't know what bad is. It's expensive I'm sure and you can get prettier and nicer girls to have sex with you for the price of dinner and a few bad jokes

  • It's better than no sex

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