Is it bad I’m still a virgin at 27?

[Mdavila]

[ZamerZ]

No, it's absolutely fine. How other people treat you - in this case, not having sex with you - isn't an indicator of how desirable you are. And a little secret: Nothing is going to change after you slept with someone. Absolutely nothing. No one will notice, no one will inquire you on it unless you share it with someone. I thought I was glowing with happiness and that there was something special about me now when I lost mine, but nobody noticed anything different about me. It's only a big deal because it is a personal thing. In the bigger picture, it's only one of many experiences that you will have.

[Hot_Mess_Express]

Define bad. Because if you are comfortable with your decision then there is no right are to lose your virginity. Do what you want and what makes you happy.

[jshm2]

Yes and no. Yes because people can't stand you, or socialise with you for long enough to think you're worth living with. Meaning you're barely human, as humans are social animals.

But no, in that if you're in a career or working solo most of the time, then you're not going to be in a position to form many relationships until much later in life.

I suppose it's more down to you looking at your 27 years and thinking if you've done enough to take a break and find company. Or if you're better off alone and going ahead.

[ItsMariusz]

Nope... Everyone has their own reasons for the choices they make and follows their unique path in life. There isn't a specific "correct" age for various experiences. Additionally, it's also worth noting that your value as an individual isn't determined by any sexual experiences, just in case you ever question it. Remember, your journey is personal and valid,

[Billlewis]

Not for a woman it isn't. Now, if you were a male that age, and had never had intercourse, you'd more than likely be receiving some hellacious teasing right now l...

[Berethor]

Well virgin women are best, I would take a pure virgin over dirty ho every day of the week.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Summeroflove]

Nope. Better then being a slut. I would wait until marriage

[MementoMori777]

Nah you do you

[artgorgeous]

Then find yourself an ugly man. Or and escort man. Or become attractive. See - tons of options are there.

[UniquelyBasic]

I would say in most cases it's probably not the best thing to be a virgin until 27 but people may have their reasons as to why they haven't had sex.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Nope.

[Drumlin2001]

Nope. But if you want to change that you you to be proactive or the years will drift by

[RavVid]

It is not bad, being selective and discriminating is to your credit and a lot of guys would value that.

To me though I would want to know we work sexually together, to get into a long term relationship.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's unusual, but it's not bad. A lot of people royally fuck their mental health up by having sex before they should. It's probably better that you didn't have sex yet, honestly.

[bowenw]

No there are no rules. Everyone is different.

[bowenw]

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[DarkWinterNights]

Virgin? No. But if you don’t have any prospects and you want a family someday you should probably start looking. It doesn’t get any easier the longer you wait.

[exitseven]

No, you have not had the right opportunity. Everyone is different.

[FunkyMonkee]

Only for the guys that wouldn't take you on! Most likely, it's their loss.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, wait fir the right person.

[DextroShade]

It's getting there. If you reach 30 and you couldn't find a single man who you liked enough to get with then you threw away your best years for nothing. Men will know there is likely something wrong with you.

[Lokiion]

I wouldn’t say its bad

[Mahitoo]

I don't think so

[Iron_Man]

It’s good for you don’t give it up

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all wait for the right guy at the right time