Is it bad if a girl grabs your penis right away during foreplay?

[Anonymous]

I gotta say that I enjoy foreplaying a lot, I enjoy so much that I really don't like feeling rushed during the performance. therefore when I'm making out with a girl and she grabs my penis first thing like it has happened with a few of my exes then I get the feeling that she doesn't want to take part in the act and wants to rush me into the actual sex in order to get over it.

anyways is this true? does it mean you're doing a bad job if she goes straight for your penis first hand?

[DianaCrimson]

Not at all. If i grab my partners dick that just means im attracted to him and i want him and i wanna give him pleasure. Things dont need to go streight from drabbing to sex. I love touching his whole body and playing with him, teasing him and making him rock hard from wanting it soo much before we go towards sex. And i kinda prefer oral before the sex as that way i can finish him and during the sex he will last much longer and till he's ready for the sex he can warm me up too. That way we both win multiple orgasms guaranteed.

[Tomblebee]

My guy sent my hand there.
Maybe they don't like to think that they are getting all the attention, and don't want you to be turning them on when you yourself are not in the mood yet. Tbh it would be kinda awks if ya werent into it..

[system73554]

It doesn't mean you are doing a bad job, or doing anything wrong at all. Technically she's overstepping your boundaries if it's making you uncomfortable.
You might just want to communicate some boundaries with her.

[Asker]

who said anything about boundaries? and why would i see that as a boundary? I just thought the timing looked a little suspicious

[MrNameless]

you can still stick to foreplay when she's grabbing your penis/genitals.. Oral sex is also considered foreplay if sex is going to happen

[crazybi]

nothings being done wrong, but communication can go a long way if you tell her you would like something else rubbed during making out it might be entertaining to see what she rubs

[Poppykate]

Nope. The woman likes her D! 😉

[Scarlettblaze]

No, I go straight to the dick a lot and it means I want him right then.

[QueenofCups]

No. Means she's horny.

[Asker]

obviously, but so am I. yet I don't go strait to her genitals but then again women can practically has a many orgasms as she wants. unlike us men on whenever we shoot out load we have to hibernate for hours

[ghostqueen]

Nope, that's usually what happens.

[omgjassy]

Of course not

[Asker]

then why not grab somewhere else?

[omgjassy]

She is so turned on she wants it in that moment

[Asker]

ok then i guess I'm gonna use this to my advantage next time a do a little teasing 😈😈😈

[omgjassy]

Hahahahah

[pinayfit]

Nope its not

[Anonymous]

You're an unusual guy -- but that's OK.