Is it bad my girlfriend watches porn sometimes?

Question

■》When I'm not around she says she needs something to stimulate her so she watches porn to get off?

■》Should I make her stop? Is my girlfriend watching porn a bad thing does it reflect on me? She says only watches when I'm not there at night

Jaarraduun · Accepted Answer

My first question is this; are you two living together? If. Not, then there isn't a ton you can do or really say. That's her choice as y'all ain't sharing the same space yet.

But if you are living together and you both are serious about the other, then I would say if it bothers you or you view it as cheating, sit down with her and have a calm, but serious conversation. Let your view be known. Think through how you want to phrase your questions and why you see it as an issue for your relationship.

For me, I told my wife I didn't want any porn to be in our relationship when we sat down to discuss being potential partners. She hasn't watched porn since we started dating a few years back, because I was clear and concise that I viewed porn as cheating (there is a deep reason into the why, but I'ma omit that here, as everyone's reasons will differ for them). She agreed to what I had to say, and in return, once we got married, and even though physical touch really isn't my thing, I gave her all the physical affection and affirmation she needed. She felt so loved that she wasn't interested in porn anymore-- because that's the role I filled now.

I honestly think it can help promote a healthier relationship, but you need to make sure it's something you both talk about openly. You need to get your reasoning across and you need to hear her's. If she has a porn addiction, even if she wants to do that for you, you need to be understanding and approach it respectfully even if you don't agree with it. If she has no interest and trying to move past it and it bothers you, you might have to do some inner searching as to the why it does, and choose your next steps after that.

Good luck to you mate, hope that helps.

inhua · Accepted Answer

depends on what she's watching but yes it can be really bad

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes it reflects on you cause she needs to be bent over pants dropped more often!

She is screaming for more!

Really it can be okay since your drive is not as high but I think you two can work on it and she can stop when ever she wants!

She may need a fantasy what porn doe she needs?

Alexz0 · Accepted Answer

No! It absolutely fine. What is wrong with it?

summiter · Answer

Not at all... guys do it so why can't she?

Samantha36 · Answer

No it should turn you on

Wonderingguyy · Answer

If it’s only when you’re not there, I wouldn’t worry about it. She’s probably just really horny and can’t go to sleep without getting off. Also she told you about it, so I doubt it’s anything to be concerned about.