Is it bad that I don't desire to go and have sex with another guy since im single and haven't found a decnet boyfriend?

I've only really hooked up once and it was also my first time. I've been trying to date and stuff but i haven't had luck because most guys have been just asking me for nudes and sex and i want more than that like an actual relationship but im not pushing it.. i also dont wanna be a slut and sleep around i just wanna find a mature guy to have sex with before i do it again.
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  • I feel you on this. I’m the same way, I don’t really wanna sleep around if I don’t have an emotional connection and love with the person. I would rather them be my boyfriend than a stranger.
    The dating pool is difficult, I’m trying to find someone right now but not getting much luck for the same exact reasons as you.
    It’s not bad at all, that’s just your preference and how you operate. You are not alone.

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  • Same here, actually I want a partner and real friend both in my girlfriend
    I want it longer and serious too
    But still I am looking and am single and don't have luck with girls
    I want loyal and passionate girl for me

    • Yeah exactly.. and i dont want another hook up thing. I feel like itll happen when the time is right. I also dont wanna risk a disease or pregnancy i just went to lose my v card because i was curious but i was safe thing is, the emotional part is what hurt me because he wanted nothing more than sex and even tried to contact me again for it and ask me for favors. It got toxic fast.

    • I am sorry you experienced a player in your life. Same I dont want to hurt my feelings again I have been single since few years and have bad luck with girls Actually I want a girl to become my real close friend first

    • He almost became a stalker it was crazy because when we hooked up it was just a mutual nice agreement we'd have fun & he didn't try to hurt me like physically and insult me then it got weird. Life is tough and people are phony like it scares me..

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  • You are young, just experiment while you are free to do so! Time goes so fast, you soon be in a nursing home :D

    • Once i find a boyfriend for sure

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • its not bad, you just have standards and waiting for the right guy.

  • I understand how you feel Miss, I haven't had sex either and I feel it should be with someone I connect with, not just anybody.
    I want a partner in my life with whom I can these experiences.

  • It's not bad at all

  • No it’s not bad at all. Thing is, you probably won’t find a boyfriend as hot as a guy that just wants to hook up. A 7 woman can bang a 10 man, but a 10 man rarely dates a 7 woman. Just something to keep in mind about standards if you want long term

  • Being slut is prouded skill for a woman. Every woman should be a bit slut if she can...

  • It's alright. And this might actually make you a desirable partner for many guys

  • Keep on searching, you will find sincere boyfriend