If you look good if you feel good if you have it beautiful energy Aura floating all around you if you have nice clothes on if you have Kiki clothes on it doesn't matter what you're wearing guys are going to look at you and says simple you could wear a cardboard box and if you have good energy guys are going to stare at you and just drill I think it's cool that you take care of yourself so guys will look at you there's nothing wrong with that if you got it and got it and if you don't we'll go get it I like looking at a well put together woman that's for sure
This is a common thing among older women especially single or married.
You want people especially men to find you attractive even though old and have kids.
It gives you an ego boost because sometimes maybe you think you are out of the DATING GAME.
HONESTLY THOSE KIND OF GUYS WILL GIVE YOU ATTENTION BUT LET THEM FIND WHO YOU ARE... THAT'S THE TIME THINGS CHANGES...
You have maintained yourself upto know thats very good... You have a HUSBAND THAT'S GREAT... THE EGO BOOST IS JUST A FANTASY... WILL YOU WEAR BIKINI EVERYTIME BECAUSE IT SEEMS THAT THE WAY YOU GET A LOT Of ATTENTION...
Anyway good luck..
I find it great to be checked out. Guys looking at your ass when you bend over or looking down your front. I found it creepy at school now just part of life.
Well, I don't like it when guys check me out in a creepy way. I think there's a line between a certain way a guy checks you out that's flattering and another way that's really creepy
I found this in school, the guys there were so pervy about it. But when I use to work in the office the guys did it, I felt quite flattered. Considering some of the dolls that worked there. I find it amasing that guys have this ability of stripping you with there eyes.
Oh. But that would be objectifying women. And men are creeps for that. Women out here have no idea rhe messages men are getting out here.
It definitely isn't bad, everyone wants to be noticed, looked at and felt desired. We all want to be wanted
I just feel kind of conceited and vain. I also know my husband doesn't really like all those guys checking me out. He ignores it and/or turns his other way (and I think it's because he's pretty sure nothing will come of it), but I know it does bother him (at least to the level of annoyance)
Make him jealous.
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Everyone appreciates some attention, nothing wrong with that.
But I do feel kind of bad because 1. I am married and I am enjoying the attention of other guys admiring my body in (what's honestly) a pretty sexual way 2. I do feel conceited and vain for enjoying the attention
As long as your husband is okay with that attention, then you are offending no one, and have every right to enjoy the sexual heat of the guys looking at your body. And you are not conceited for that.
@Red_Arrow Absolutely! As long as everyone is consenting adults, especially Hubby. No harm in that.
Nothing wrong at all with enjoying the attention. In your 40s and 4 kids and still maintaining a great body is something to be proud of. You do not look arrogant or conceited at all. You are just proud for maintaining your looks! And as long as your guy is not bothered by the attention, then you should enjoy the attention as much as you can. Flaunt it and let them check you out!
I see nothing wrong with it, as long as you keep it to yourself.
Nope, nothing wrong with it.
If you got it, enjoy the attention.
Just like wearing a nice dress or top with a low cut front that shows your cleavage... you get a lot of attention.. enjoy it, love it, and have fun with it.
Good for you!
As long as you don't go wandering off with someone else that isn't your partner (unless he's a cuck), the fact that you enjoy a complimenting stare or a sincere word of plause it's all but wrong.
Not at all, I would enjoy it too if women were checking me out. But tanning is not a great idea. It leads to premature aging.
Mmmm.. I'd love to check you out in a bikini.
No, that is just normal behavior. Most women like the attention of men, married or not. Human nature.
If you look good in a bikini, enjoy it. Nothing is forever.
Validation is never bad.
Nah. Enjoy it.
I think most people like to confirm they are attractive to the opposite sex even if they are in a relationship. A lot of guys tell their partners they look great regardless of the truth, so unbiased confirmation is beneficial.
You spend a lot of time and effort to maintain a fit body. You should show it off. It would be a damn shame not to.
Being married doesn't mean that you no longer want to feel desirable. Just make sure that you are careful not to step out.
Not at all i think its natural
Yes it's bad. It means you're desperate for attention and validation. AKA 'needy'.
If you're married, the question becomes... WHY?
The biggest erotic thrill for anyone is to be desirable, married, single. We get turned on when people we find a5tractive find us desirable. If you examine most fantasies the turn on about them is evoking an uncontrollable desire in someone we find attractive. I’m sure you look great in a bikini and even better out of one
NOt at all. It just means you like the attention you get. It's a confirming feeling. Just like I like it if girls check me out at a beach. As long as you're not cheating on your partner, you're in the green.
Nothing wrong to do that.
Actually it is not bad and seriously people if people of opposite gender talk to each other married or unmarried it doesn't mean something's cooking
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