Is it bad that I expect this from my friends with benefits?

I have sex with my friends with benefits and then after that he never messages me until he wants to see me again? can't he at least send a text saying ‘are you home now’ or something? Am i expecting to much? fair enough we don’t live far but he literally won't message me until he wants sex again
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  • So its not friends with benefits. It's just benefits. If you give it for nothing then he will expect that. If your start asking for dinner before and etc then it soon starts changing to a relationship. Sounds like you want a relationship.

  • Yes, I think it’s bad. I stay in contact with all my friends with benefits

  • That’s why it’s Friends with benefits.
    It means it’s just sex.
    If you want a boyfriend, that’s something else all together!

  • He is an animal. I am sorry but wrong choose

  • You should expect more decency. You're supposed to be her friend, not her booty call

  • Yes and no. There are no guarantees with friends with benefits. I guess y'all could talk from time to time to catch up and discuss the next time to get together

  • Do you message him

  • I mean it sounds like the friend part doesn't exist and it's just benefits

  • same here. does he talk a lot after sex?

    • After the sex we spend the whole night together and sleep and we talk a lotttt but whenever we leave each other he won’t text me. He is a busy guy and i know he dosent want. a relationship but it doesn’t hurt to send a text tbh

    • why the guy I met exactly same as yours? he's always busy with his work either. :(

    • by the way he is a divorcee, which is why he doesn't want relationship..

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