Is it bad that I've never had sex and I'm 21?

Sex isn't really something I'm actively looking for it's not something I'm eagerly trying to do. Honestly I could careless if I have sex with someone or not. I'm not saying I never want to have sex I'm just not actively looking to have sex with something. I'm kinda sorta just waiting till I find the right person to do it with.
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  • No, of course not. I'm 23 and still haven't had my time

    I overheard a girl in arts college last year talking about similar boy struggles. I was going to talk with her about it, but I didn't find a moment until I actually crushed on her, and she also dropped out soon after.

    • Dang I’m sorry that must have sucked but thanks for sharing

    • It did suck, especially because I got rejected twice during the party at which I crushed on her. Didn't take it too seriously though, just laughed it off, really.

    • That’s good that’s the best attitude you could’ve had

  • Keep doing what you doing. Find that lovely one and make that one rock your world

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  • No. There’s no rush. So much disease out there…herpes etc‼️ You find one you like you should discuss medical exams before Sex. If they think that’s over the top THEN something is not right‼️

  • That’s cool man, there’s no rush and sex is personal.
    but to be honest, when I was 21, I never met anyone who thought that way!

  • Didn't happen until 25 for me

  • I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 so it's not that big of a deal 🤷‍♂️