Girls, is it bad that I want a girlfriend who has sex with other guys?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been in denial for a long time, but I just have to admit to myself that the idea of having a girlfriend who has sex with other guys while I watch and masturbate really turns me on. I know this means you’re a cuckold, but is this bad or weird in any way to want a relationship like this and will there even be women who are ok with that kind of relationship?

[Anonymous]

You are a cuck and if your girlfriend would also be into that that is perfectly fine, but you can't coarse her into that as that would be terrible. Good luck on your quest of finding such girlfriend, I'm guessing its not gonna be easy as most of us want monogamy

[Asker]

Thanks, yeah I’m actually surprised that its not easy because you’d think that most women would love to be able to have sex with whatever man they want whenever they wanted to, but I guess not.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not so sure about that, I've never met a woman that would like to do that, but where I live its not like america where there would probably be quite a few

[mandyfire98]

It's not common but there are definitely relationships that involve what you are into. Cuckolding or stag and vixen arrangements. I was in one in college. My boyfriend at the time felt exactly like you do.

[Asker]

He was in denial of the fact that it turned him on and finally accepted it and then tried to embrace it?

[mandyfire98]

Originally yeah. But that was before he met me. By the time he met me he was already into it.

[Asker]

Oh I see. You didn’t think any less of him for the fact that he wanted you to be having sex with other guys?

[mandyfire98]

At first I thought it was odd. I didn't think less of him. Just thought it was odd at first

[Asker]

That’s understandable because I’m sure most women almost expect a guy to eventually bring up the idea of bringing other women into the bedroom and are surprised when he says that he wants to bring in other men. It definitely is not an easy fantasy to mention to a woman you’re dating.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah I understand it's not easy finding someone that would be willing to do it. My boyfriend at the time just happened to get lucky that I was adventurous.

[Asker]

Do you think a lot of women are reluctant because they’re afraid it will ruin their relationship?

[mandyfire98]

Yeah but also because it's not a common arrangement.

[laurieluvsit]

Nothing wrong with it if you can find one

[HateyouxD]

Question first. Why are you like this? Do you feel sexually inadequate?

[Asker]

I’m more used to being in third person and watching other people have sex from years of watching porn. I also don’t have much sexual experience so yeah, I’m probably sexually inadequate too.

[HateyouxD]

I would totally be down for it. And I wouldn't think less of you

[Asker]

Thanks! I’m glad to hear that there are women who are down for that!

[Paige90]

I think a lot of guys like doing this. My college boyfriend wanted to watch me and after he kept asking me we did it three times.

[Asker]

Yeah I think more than are willing to admit to it. Did you end up liking it when you two finally tried it?

[Paige90]

Send me a PM and I will respond

[Asker]

Ok, I think we’ve actually PM’ed before but I’m not sure

[sheikalana]

That's really weird but you're not the first guy I hear saying that. My ex wanted to watch me have sex with other men.

[Asker]

Since you think its really weird, I’m guessing you told your ex that you would not do that?

[sheikalana]

Obviously.

[tralalala38]

It's not weird if you both like it

[Thumper2thump]

no we all have fetishes. as a woman i would be down, but you have to be secure in your relationship first

[Nikki1989]

Whatever pops your cork.

[Asker]

Do you think there will be women who will be open to a relationship like that?

[Violeta_54]

So you want second hand? Don't like open the holes?

[Asker]

I just think it would be hot to have a girlfriend who’s open to explore sexuality with whoever she wants to. Do you think that’s weird?