Is it bad to have sex with one guy then the day after have sex with another guy?

So is this bad I had sex with a guy I met online on Saturday night then met another guy who I spoke to online and had sex with him on the Sunday night is that bad.

I can't seem to say no to guys it's like as soon as anyone says sex I just jump straight in I don't know why.

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  • Bad to whom? there's nothing wrong with anything until there is a consequence. If the consequence is really awful and results in exceptional suffering or even death, that's a big problem for you, them, potential future mates, and offspring, possibly relatives, and overall... society.

    So society over millenia built up "standards" of human behavior to improve the chances of good outcomes. Various cultures have them. That's all they are, ways to improve your chance of success... it's for your good and the offsprings chances.

    Let humans run loose to feed their bottomless pit of selfish desires, and ya get all sorts of mayhem and problems. why don't you make a list?

    It be good to visit those standards in thought and revise your behavior accordingly.

    Ultimately, it is stupidity to mate with multiple guys because of the various problems related. It may work for some period of time, it may work for you and them. But the consequences lurk and are not easy to fix... you just have to accept and live with them. Many, you don't want.

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  • Nope. I used to hook up with guys on a regular basis. I have a pretty physical sexual attraction to men, and I used to get with guys because I honestly only I wanted their cocks. I wasn't interested in catching feelings, only in having fun with those guys that I thought had nice dicks. Sometimes I'd be able to suck a different man every other day, rarely the same dude more than twice. Same thing with some women, although I have a better connection with women and usually didn't have too many one night stands but I did have several friends with benefits at the same time. (if one person was busy, try the next person and so on).

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  • Girl, if you're enjoying yourself and not lying to anyone/leading them on then do whatever you want. Just make sure to practice safe sex and be careful of STDs if you change partners frequently.

    However, if this makes you yourself uncomfortable from a moral perspective then that's something you have to confront within yourself. Objectively it's not bad, but if you have a moral issue with your own behavior then maybe it is bad for you. (But personally I think it's fine, even if it wouldn't be my choice.)

  • Wow all the shaming going on here. Ignore them... life is too short not to have fun. As long as you're safe, go for it. I have done this many times. It can be a lot of fun.

    • Oh, please... it takes more care for someone to shame them than it does to enable their self-destructive & dumb choices.

    • @hahahmm who says they're self destructive and dumb choices?

    • Thousands of years of tradition. Our ancestors weren't idiots. They learned a lot the hard way and now it's up to you to decide if you want to learn the hard way.

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  • Having sex with multiple people in itself isn't wrong pr say.
    However people assume some kind of exclusivity when dating, and you *should* talk and ask if people are okay with you not being exclusive or you will hurt people.
    Also, quite frankly, a girl sleeping with multiple people is more likely to catch a STD then a guy is.

    Anyway, don't feel bad about being unable to say no.
    It sounds like you're just naturally submissive.
    Find yourself a dominant man and I think you'll find life a bit easier.
    mong other reasons because you get the option of saying "I'm not allowed to" instead of "no".

    • 'among

  • I sure hope not as I can't tell you how many times I did that.

  • I think it's actually worse than being a hooker because hookers don't lie to themselves about their value.

  • As long as your safe and not exclusive then there's nothing wrong with it.

  • Nope! (Just be safe)

  • No, not at all! I love it when a woman uses me as a submissive male pay pig to pay for her dates with other guys and then has me lick her clean afterwards. However, having intercourse with different guys on back to back days is also very exciting, in my opinion.

  • It isn't bad but be careful. I have done it before.

  • You are 23. Don't sweat it. In my 20's I had a 'friend' who was about 23, and she had a regular 'fuck buddy' at her workplace and they fucked at lunch at his place and on the weekends. I was with her on a Sunday afternoon, and ate her pussy in her driveway, and she told me her regular FB fucked her on Friday night. No big deal for her or me.

    As @Samantha36 said, go for it... life is short, you are only 23 ONE FUCKING TIME! Ask me!!!

  • No.
    I have done that and more when I was younger.
    Morning sex then a date with someone else and sex with them.

  • Nope. Just make sure you don't lead anyone on, be honest with everyone

  • Probably not great for your health, but as long as you aren't getting STDs or getting pregnant you should be fine.

  • it is not bad bur sooner or later it will turn bad really fast.

  • Yeah its really stupid to do that.

    Even if it were just one guy, having sex with a stranger is stupid. Cheating on them with another stranger is extra stupid...

  • No big deal, sometimes I have sex with multiple people separately on the same day sometimes.

  • it is pretty bad, you should respect yourself more than that

  • This is not safe, just fucking random dudes that you met online.

  • You are for the streets.

  • Not at all. I do that often

  • you not in a relationship so it’s not a problem just don’t make it a weekly occurrence maybe once a month minimum between sex back to back with different men if you plan to get into a relationship it’s best to keep your body count under tour age

  • if you were in a relationship with the first guy then yeah its bad. if not then there is nothing bad about it. hell am sure the guy you hade sex with went and hade sex with another women the day after they hade sex with you too lol.

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