Is it bad to want a sugar daddy?

I don’t really believe in love — for me anyways.

I feel like if he was happy with the arrangement it could work.

Also older men are more masculine lmaooo.

And I only have my looks now I might as well make the most of it.

Or do you think it’s something to regret down the line?

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  • You can do what you want - BUT, don't think you will be free from consequences. Having a sugar daddy might get you easy, fun money today, but such arrangements are always temporary - maybe a few months, maybe a few years - and the consequences are usually that very few men will ever take you seriously as a relationship partner in the future.

    You might not care about that now - you're young, and it's easy to get endless amount of attention from men right now - but a decade from now, when that attention is largely gone (you might still get some SEXUAL attention), having a real relationship is likely to be something you really want. Men, however, rarely take a woman seriously if she's ever monetized her sexuality - very few men want to commit to a woman that other men have bought, and the ones who are willing are rarely the ones women want.

    It's kind of like getting a credit card - it's very easy to charge it up buying things, but FAR less fun to pay the bill for years afterwards, and the one big difference is that you can walk away from your credit cards and only ruin your credit rating. You can never walk away from your past.

    If you don't care about any of that, then do whatever you like. But if the time comes when you have regrets, don't blame the consequences of your choices on anyone else - you knew the risks and likely consequences from the start.

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  • To me a sugar baby is a prostitute. You can dress it up as much as you like, but giving your body in exchange for financial gain is the definition.

    Personally although I have no moral issues with it, it's not something for me. I think sex work is a legitimate source of income and should be legalized and regulated to make it safer for the workers and prevent human trafficking, etc.

    You are young and beautiful now and sex is an easy commodity to trade, but down the line do you ever want to be in love? Do you plan on landing a rich guy to take care of you for the rest of your life or do you have alternative career ambitions? At my age 52, I crave companionship in a way I never did in my 20's. I fucked my way around the world and it was great, but it's basically masturbation with a partner, and I don't remember most of their names. If you really want to enjoy the human experience, I believe love is necessary. Not for survival, but emotionally and spiritually, There is something incredibly beautiful about wanting to share your life with someone you find irresistible. Don't you ever want a guy (or girl if you're bi-sexual) to pursue you because you're a unique, exceptional woman, or just means of getting off?

    When it comes down to it, nobody's opinion will matter. You have to look at your reflection and be happy in your own skin. As long as you are not hurting yourself or others, the only morality that matters is your own.

    • I don’t believe in love any more

Most Helpful Girls

  • No its not. I want a sugar daddy too but I can't get one because I'm in a relationship.

    • That sucks

    • Yes it does 😞

    • Ahhh

  • my oldest has a sugar daddy. as long as ur happy its ok

    • I love that for her!

    • really what does she do for his attention?

    • post pics in the dresses she buys using his money send him video of her sucking dick he send her 5k a week

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Id wonder why that is… your tole model for a man was missing?

    • I have a dad actually lol but I just want to have a bit of fun

    • what would u do for your side of the bargain?

    • @rebeliouse he’d have my company

  • No, not at all. For ease of use with fewer expected reciprocity, you'll likely be happier with a submissive male pay pig.

  • Not at all. Personally, I find this sort of relationship low stress and enjoyable. Don’t think/worry too hard. Just be careful, take it in steps, and enjoy the ride.

  • LOL,

    I think there are about 15 virtuous left on the planet.

    • If the man is happy with it what’s the problem?

  • Smh.

    • I take that as a no lmao

  • Not at all lmaoooo

  • If it suits you and the SD fine. I don't think you are going to get a lot of money out of the SD if that is the aim

  • Don't do it

  • Not really a dynamic that I would entertain, I wouldn’t want a woman who’s only with me for material purposes, but to each their own. I try to imagine what life would be like when I’m in my 70’s. I only really see one scenario where I’m legitimately happy.

  • No, if it's what you want go for it.

  • Yeah its pretty stupid. He will see you as a prostitute, and you'll be thrown away once he gets bored of you. You'll definitely regret it down the line, as that sort of history reduces your dating value to zero for anything aside from more prostitution, so once lose your looks (and you will, because you're not smart), you'll have zero value, and end up alone and miserable. Then you'll have to pay men to get sex because no one loves you, and at that point, you will realize what you got yourself into.

    • I have 2 degrees so I’m smart.

    • If college degrees alone made people smart, we would not have shitty healthcare, shitty technology, sluts, gold diggers, polluters, drunks, druggies, or religious people. And yet we have all of those things in people who have college degrees.

    • Alright. I’m guessing you don’t have a degree. It’s always people that don’t have degrees that say a university education means nothing 🤣 it’s cause you can’t do it

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  • Yes. Wanting a surgar daddy is wrong. You should be able to take care of yourself without anyones help. In other words be independent.

  • Hell no! I'd love a sugar daddy! But I feel like no sugar daddy would want me

    • Now, that's hot...

    • @Billlewis lol I won't let you do any gay stuff. But like if you wanna hang out and go fishing or something I'm willing to get paid for that. Also if we could not talk that would be great

    • Of course. You're welcome to follow me if you want..

  • A sugar daddy, you know how such relayionships work, if you want money and fake love and feelings, go for it and if you want real love, real feelings and no materialistic issues than having a sugar daddy won't work, remember that a sugar daddy can always switch with another one whenever he is bored, you will be just his amusement doll with an unknown expiry date...

  • Get your good job first. You don't want to depend on a guy's money because you'll have nothing when he finds a new plaything.

    • And I don't know about that whole don't believe in love thing. You need to work on that

    • I’m honestly and truly just really going through it in life rn lol

    • Well I have all the love and none if the money, you can be my sugar mama hahaha

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  • 😳🤦‍♂️

    Yes. I'm very surprised to hear this from you. You don't want a genuine relationship? This sounds so unlike you

    • I’m a good girl but I have an inner slut. That’s how I’d describe it 🤣🤣

    • Oh good lord! May God help you😂

    • Lmaooooooo

  • Very bad

  • Nope, do what you want.

  • Dm me. I have some questions

    • I'm here, if you'd like to chat with someone who has experience in this kind of arrangement.

    • I was referring to the person who posted.. not you. Why would I ask you if I said DM Me I have questions.

  • Your life, your choices. I mean if you both know what it's about, you both agree - then why not?

    I mean the guy is basically paying for sex, but it's not prostitution per se.

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