Is it bad to want dick whenever I feel sad?

Talking to my friends about how many fucking highs and lows I go through and they said it's time to go to the doctor because that's not normal from what they can see and I told them I only want dick for now. I'm probably bipolar but then again whenever I'm going through some horrible thoughts and sad as hell I just want dick maybe that's why I haven't been to the doctor to get my mind fixed. Anyways, is it bad to want sex as a solution to my problems? Would you have sex with me in this situation?
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  • DOes it make you feel good? i mean sex does increase endorphins so its natural and does feel good. I hate casual attitudes about it but i have had them myself at times but not when i was upset. Usualy sex was the last thing from my mind but it could be that mars venus things. You did not mention your relationship status. if you have a boyfriend ( since its the 2020s maybe a girlfriend) or husband then probably not a big deal but if you have multiple partners i will not lecture you on morals just to be safe and value yourself.

    There was a time a woman's body was sacred and men appreciated them and loved them and now its just about a piece of ass. now i am far from perfect but i NEVER lied to a girl to get sex and the few one night stands i had were with girls i knew and i always wanted more but i was there in a "time of need" or whatever.

    If you heard of the girl that all a guy had to do was say she was pretty and she was in bed i was the male version in college when i sprouted muscles. I was so not used to gettting attention and then wnated it.

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  • Probably, after I spanked you soundly on the bare for not taking better care of yourself.

  • We all have something that we use in order to deal with our problems. I don't think it is necessarily bad that you want dick as an alternative since it is a "healthier" solution.

  • Eww.. No..

    • Shouldn't you be worrying about your own life

  • It's unusual I know women need to gave there mind in the right place to enjoy sex and being sad isn't usually it.
    Saying that if your just using it to uplift your mood it might be bringing your mind to the right place.

    Everyone has there own coping mechanisms this sounds like yours and if it works for you excellent!

  • Lol no not bad. Some of us have waves of sexual interest.

  • Yes. Sex should be a positive experience. It sounds like you are using it as a coping mechanism like alcohol or other drugs.

  • Yes, it is. Because you are clearly just trying to ignore the things that make you said through getting an euphoric high from the physical pleasure of sexual activity.

    Can't run away from your emotions forever, though. You have to learn to deal with them and regulate yourself.

  • If you ask for it, yes.
    I will not minde if that will make you feel bether.
    That is olso the poin in making sex, to feel good.

  • Makes me think of a saying a woman I used to know would say, “sad in the pants”.

  • Perhaps it's just that you want dick.

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