Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it bad to watch porn while you're in a relationship?
Anonymous
there's been times where I've watched porn while my partner was at work. I only watch it so I can learn and try new things/positions on my partner (he actually likes it when I try new ways of sucking him out). But, is the "I watch porn" part bad? He doesn't know about it, I feel embarrassed to tell him cause its porn haha. We've been together for 7 years
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 35Nope if it teches u something new
It's not a problem, especially since you use it as an instruction manual
No it isn’t your partner can’t be their 24/7. I also love it if my potential partner would watch it with me.
consider porn as a lesson
My girl and I watch it together.
I say it is. It is sorta minor cheating.
Do you think so? Like, I dont do it to watch random people have sex (which I dont like watching) but i learn on ways to make my partner feel good. Still cheating? If so, I will discontinue watching porn lol
I dont know, you choose.
I don’t think so. Unless it becomes an addiction. Like you said. It’s great for thinking up some new ideas. Do you ever watch it together.
you are allowed to have secrets.. this is a good one, he just thinks you are passionate, not a researcher in disguise. Its great that you do this for him... keep the home fires burning... the other option is talk about sex with your girlfriend's... lol
It kind of is. It is cheating. With self and with partner.
No as long as it doesn’t cause problems in your relationship
No its human nature
we watch it together
That's bad
I think so
Life is a learning experience
When you see something you get some knowledge about it
Ohh right, thank you. I'll take it from you guys cause if you feel it's bad maybe my partner will too. Thank you
Ok thanks for it
what is bad about it
No but you shouldn't be addicted or compare with your real sexual life
We watch it together, and try and role play exactly what was on the screen.
NAH!
Together is good to spice up things. Ur reasoning seems good. Butt--when a guy goes and does it behind ur back to get off on himself over those fakers, it is not any good. You're okay.
No I don't think it's bad. If you only do it occasionally there's not much risk of addiction. You do it for your enjoyment and to learn and both are valid reasons that your partner will probably approve of. Have you ever watched it with him? It might be fun!
Ohh cool, thank you. haven't watched it with him, he is not into it, we are both not actually haha. But yes, I only watch it for knowledge so my partner can feel good. Thank you
You're welcome, enjoy :)