Is It Better Being A Switch Than Being Submissive Or Dominant?

I think it gives the couple more options in the bedroom and it spices things up!! Also being 100% submissive or dominant in the bedroom can get dull over time!!
A. Yes It Is Better
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B. It Is Not Better
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  • I think it is better because then you can either adjust to your partner but then also have some variety

    • Very true

    • Thank you for the mho 😊

  • I would agree with that.

    • Being either submissive or dominant all of most of the times would get soo boring

    • Plus you would not destroy the relationship

    • It would I agree, though not about destroying the relationship part since I know plenty of couples where that's not the case.

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  • I think a good 50 - 50 balance or whatever feels natural in the moment is great. I don't mind being submissive or dominant or having my partner do so. Seeing a girl take it is hot as hell but also when she takes charge and gets on top and dirty talks and is more aggressive and assertive is one of the sexist things I've seen. Aggressive as in telling you what she wants and being a little forceful no hitting or anything like that.

    • Me too, an assertive aggressive girl is soo sexy

    • yeah I like it when she just gets that confident look on her face that says I'm in control now. I've only had that happen once with an ex but damn it was hot. She was hot and she knew it, she could just sit on top of me and I would get super aroused with the way she did it and the look on her face.

  • Nope, unless it comes naturally it’s not better to switch.

    it takes a lot of skill and training to be a good sub.

    it’s a relationship of mutual trust and knowing what each other likes.

    simply switching, means that you expect someone naturally submissive to be Dominant.

    some couples can switch but not all.

    remember it’s not just about the sex, it’s deeper than that.

  • It's neither better or worst, it's just a preference really. It's a bit like asking what's better apples or bananas

    • But doing the same thing will get boring and might destroy the relationship

    • Possibly but plenty of people are doms and sub and don't get bored.

  • Repeating the exact same sexual experience for years sounds very boring. Adding variety to playing and being open in communication helps keep sex fun and edgy

    • Plus you would not destroy the relationship

  • Best of both worlds

    • Yep!!