Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I really am cursed in this matter, my boobs aren't nice at all. It really makes sex life and even dating much harder than it normally is. Explaining this to guys usually leads nowhere.
I don't know what else to do, I can't afford a plastic surgery (and tbh I am scared of it) so I'm wondering what do you guys think is better for a woman of my case. Leave the bra on or not?
It's hard to feel confident and good looking when some parts of your body don't fit the criteria.
Is it better to leave the bra on during sex if I don't have pretty breasts?
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13 25If a girl I want to have sex with is too self conscious to let me see her naked I have to question whether or not we should date.
I wouldn't say wear a bra, but maybe like a tank top that can easily be pulled down. A guy isn't gonna care that you don't have perfect boobs. He will care if he's constantly denied access to them. And besides, you're robbing yourself of added pleasure by keeping them covered and not allowing him to touch, kiss, nibble, squeeze them.
Take the bra off. Men like to feel tits and suck nipples, no matter what the tits look like.
I voted “No Bra”
Learn to be proud of them.
They are what you were born with.
Accept them as part of your femininity and your sexuality.
Get yourself a bra that accentuates them.
Confident girls are the sexiest.
I never do.
Either bra off or wear some kind of sexy lingerie
I wouldn’t be self conscious I’m sure the guy would still enjoy your breasts the way they are and make aex more enjoyable
No bra. All tits are great!
I perfer off but that is up to you and your partner. Always have the lights off
Just take it of and enjoy the moment as it feels weard when you hide it and feels that you not fully want it and something wrong with me...
Me as men would not be able to see all you get upset about by looking at them all the time...
You're breasts are probably way more pretty/attractive than you think. Trust me, I don't have "porn star breasts", but I've never had a complaint!
I haven't seen a pair of boobs I didn't like; so if you were with me, I'd say take the bra off.
Not pretty boobs... means?
Just turn the lights down low.
Some people's instincts here will be to coddle you and say that all breasts are great.
It makes them feel better about themselves. I
It's the same people that upload amateur porn showing their beer guts and tiny dicks.
Or fat women that want to be told they're perfect and just as hot as anyone.
It's just nonsense and some people's body parts are not physically attractive.
That's horrible advice
@Warmapplecrumble I'm just telling her the truth. Some women's breasts are not attractive, just like some men's bodies. She's smart enough to know that. I'm not going to pretend that all bodies are equal to make her feel better. That's tge job of a White Knight.
I have bad boobs according to media so what I still go bra-less and switch lights on
@Warmapplecrumble If you are confident in your breasts and they don't bother you that's great. The asker of this question doesn't even like her own body. I can relate as there's things about me that aren't great and there's times that having the lights turned low helps. Then I don't have to think about it during sex.