Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Guys, let’s talk about that thing that you like talking about. Yep, I’m talking about your penis!
There are a lot of you guys who are either worried that you are “too small”, or brag about how “big” you are. As if that 3 inch, or 7 inch dick is the only thing that’s important to a girl. I’m going to say this very clearly, so listen up: if you and her are naked, chances are that you have OTHER qualities that got her attention to the point where you are about to get laid. Maybe it’s because you are really smart? Maybe you are funny? Possibly she thinks that you are really cute.
For whatever reason, you are going to get lucky. So first, let’s talk about “how big” your cock needs to be. Physically, it needs to be big enough to penetrate her vagina. The average penis is around 5 1/2 inches when it’s erect. That is more than enough to penetrate her. If you know what you are doing, you both will have a good time. If you don’t know what you are doing, she isn’t going to enjoy it, no matter how big you are. Good sex starts with getting her “ready”. That means foreplay. Kiss her, touch her, explore her body. Watch and listen to her clues. The female body is capable of lubricating so that you have an easy time of entering her. If she isn’t “wet” it’s going to hurt….a lot. If she is nice and ready, she has a better chance of enjoying the nice feeling of being “filled”. That can happen if you are below average, average, or big.
For the “big” guys out there who think they are too big, guess what dude: you aren’t! Women push babies out of the same hole, so check your ego! It isn’t that big.
Now that you are “in”, please remember that it’s supposed to be enjoyable for HER too. We don’t have sex just to make a man happy. Believe it or not, we like and crave sex just as much as you do. It is one of the few times when I get to just enjoy my femininity and his masculinity. Especially good sex where we climax before you shoot your baby batter into that condom or into us.
Here are the takeaways:
-Yes, it’s big enough, so STOP stressing! Stop worrying, and stop bragging!
-We don’t carry tape measures or rulers because we really don’t care.
-Worry about your heart and your character, those are things that you can control, and they are definitely far more important than the size of your magic wand.
-Talk to her about what she likes and needs for it to be the best she has ever had.
Lastly, if you aren’t in a monogamous, and committed long term relationship-USE A CONDOM.
What Girls & Guys Said
14 65Barring anything else, bigger is better.
Women like to imply superior morals in saying that size doesn't matter, but it does more often than not.
We have to assume it's a lie, on the grounds that you'd never present your honest perspective given certain social norms.
Based on those constraints, bigger is always better: Either you're lying to project your falsified character, or you're afraid of being judged for preferring small men. Either way, small dicks bad.
I agree except not every woman doesn't care about the size. There are most definitely women who at least prefer, if not need, a certain size - it's not always bigger they prefer, but I've never seen or heard of a woman preferring smaller (than average).
@delerium but is that a deal killer? Seriously, if all she’s concerned with is the size of your penis, then she’s probably not worth your time and effort.
For some women it is a deal killer. But I wasn't posting about my own experiences. I was posting information - each person can do what they like with it. I just didn't agree with your statement that women don't care - sure many don't, but not all.
preach sister. I completely agree. Guys get surprised when I tell them that women including myself thinks about sex as much as they do. But we really do.
Not more than me!!
I wish everyone could learn your points when they're young. It would have helped me... I had to ;earn them as I got older.
Some guys are disappointed when their penis does not lead to a vaginal orgasm and think the problem is their penis size when there is a large segment of the female population that only has clittoral orgasms and your penis size does not really matter to her. That said with plenty of foreplay there are several women that like being filled up and penetrated deeply. It is not all of them though. As a guy you may never make some of them happy no matter what you are working with. They can be like guys with a huge boob fetish. Some are always looking for something bigger and more ridiculous.
Nice post, well said.
I thought for a while before I made this comment. First, I am not so insecure I measure my manhood by the size of my johnson. I have been with women who for whatever reason vaginal sex was painful for them. I simply stopped. This is something I have not researched and deal with it on a case-by-case basis. This is my thoughts on this "opinion". I gauge my bedroom time by her actions. If she is coming back for more and is not being critical of me I feel like I am doing OK. If on the other hand, I am not and she gets hyper critical I will remind her where the damn door is! Thankfully 100% of the time it is the former. I simply don't let this BS bother me.
@moose304 if someone is a “size queen”, she’s probably not worth your time anyway.
Are you implying I have a small Water Weenie? LOL!
Some people confuse ''inch'' and ''cm'' :D
@KatherineJ I think of the penis as being unattractive and inconvenient and am glad that mine is not any larger than it is. Seeing an erect penis impression in one's trousers is disgusting. It is even more disgusting looking in form fitting items like swim wear and bike shorts for example. Pulling it out through the fly of your trousers and standing to pee is not all that great; sitting is much better. Penis is used for sex less than 1% of the time and is inconvenient and unnecessary the rest of the time. I have frequently thought that it would be much better to have a urethra positioned like a girl with labia and a tiny clit like penis that would become erect when needed for sex and impregnation. Penis is used for sex less than 1% of the time and is inconvenient and unnecessary the rest of the time. I have frequently thought that it would be much better to have a urethra positioned like a girl with labia and a tiny clit like penis that would become erect when needed for sex and impregnation.
great MyTake. It all makes sense.
Thank you!
All very valid points, BUT!!! can i say for me researching & educating myself with knowledge of how to confidently stimulate a female, bringing her to heightened arousal is my top priority (such a beautiful form) ;-)
If i could just remind the ladies the male G-spot is located approx 3 inches inside his anus, This also heightens the male orgasm if stimulated during orgasm,
I'll be ripped apart for saying this ;-( But i find many girls aren't aware of techniques in the male g-spot region?
Tell me if i'm wrong? when was the last time you slipped ur finger in a guys ass?
The difference is that guys don't need their g-spot stimulated to orgasm. Guys generally orgasm fairly easily so it isn't necessary to go spelunking.
Although i used to be "average", about 7 in. I have experienced it shrinking due to lack of use, chastity, etc and enjoy the SPH or when my ex girlfriend would tease or make fun of my size, or lack of...
One of the things I get asked by most of the girls who hit on me, is how big my dick is, So I don't buy your story at all. Also, a person can be funny, smart, relatable, and still not be attractive (otherwise everyone would be bisexual).
That said, I'm not worried about it, and I don't brag either - about anything, let alone penis size - because I hate ego (though I have pointed out being larger than average to defy the whole "Asians have small dicks" stereotype, because it's racist nonsense).
The reason I hate ego is because having an ego is basically saying your worth is dependant upon the opinions of others. And fuck that, my worth is dependant on my own happiness, egoists can take their anti-hedonism and shove it.
You don’t have to agree with my opinion. It’s mine, and it’s not going to change.
This is true, though I'm not referencing or contesting any of your opinions, just your claims, so I don't see the point of mentioning opinions.
Good read, legit points.
I would also add, bring lube. Learn a few different positions, and work on your cardio.
Pleasing bigger ladies can get tiring, so being fit helps.
You know why women are generally poor judges of distance?
Why is that? 🧐
Because they’ve been told for years that 6” is one foot
@andres77 🤣🤭🤣🤭
I've banged over 500+ and done P0RN (so you know I'm way bigger than average).
I've also turned many into SIZE QUEENS who originally said they didn't care. One even dropped her fiancee' (she moved from Cali to NY to get married and she left when she saw he wasn't well endowed. She came back to Cali and texted me saying that I RUINED HER - I still have the texts).
I've also found that the hotter she is, the more size will matter to her. Average chics (the 4s, 5s and 6s) will settle for what they can get, but believe it, that if they had their choice they'd take the hung, hot stud like me over the average dude with an average or small D.
My texts with that Amber chic who ditched her finacee' in New York saying I RUINED HER
below
Here's the direct link
https://imgur.com/DFnxHFQ
The hotter she is, the more it will matter to her !
If a girl rejectes me for my penis size (im 6 inches, which is not enough for some girls), i will ask her if I at least could give her oral.
But why give her the time of day?
Cause its hot knowing i made her cum, I like to be the submissive during sex after all.
What’s your goal with telling guys this? Guys talk about their dicks because they like talking about dick. It’s no different from talking about cars.
“See my dick? It’s about x big. You think it’s too x? It’s uncircumcised with all kinds of extra skin! You wanna see it? Look at it!”
just ignore guys talking about dicks or sending pics. They probably haven’t had much sexual experience or something. Eventually they’ll shut up and the next young generation of boys replace them to talk about more dick.
I heard, in their younger days, my mother made a comment about my father being too “small.” My grandfather, who thought she was a fouls mouthed tramp, asked how she gleaned her knowledge of what is normal.
If I had 10 different baby mamas it probably would be hey? I don’t even got 1 :( hahahahaha
It’s all good Jesus my prophet will guide me 2 salvation and hope & understanding😒