Is it cheating if my boyfriend watches porn?

i found out my boyfriend watches porn while i was using his phone.. it broke my heart i feel like i am being cheated and not worthy enough.. hw knew that i dont like him watching porn but still done that... is that cheating?
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  • Firstly, don't feel his actions are in any way a reflection on his desire for you. Most guys watch porn from an early age and it's just normal for them (rightly or wrongly).

    If you have told him you would prefer he didn't watch porn, and he has done it behind your back, and you feel that he is cheating, then in a way it is a kind of cheating.

    There are three outcomes:

    1. He stops watching porn (unlikely as he may be addicted - you could encourage him to get help)

    2. You accept porn into your relationship, and accept that he will watch it without you (or you could watch it together and see what he's into).

    3. He continues to do it behind your back and you feel cheated - in this case I would say you are not sexually compatible and it might be time to find another partner.

    I hope that helps.

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  • I watch porn if I just want to be selfish and do a 5-minute rub out without foreplay or responsibility.

    Ask yourself - if your boyfriend is horny, would you be able to have sex with him when he demands it all the time regardless of your mood? Without foreplay and stuff like that? Yeah, I doubt that.

    I do not want to justify the use of porn. I acknowledge that it can be addictive and if it's used as a substitute to a partner on a relationship - it could be and will be damaging.

    But as a paraphernalia to a 5-minute selfish horny time? I don't think it's fair to take that away from him especially if there are no issues on the bedroom between you two.

Most Helpful Girls

  • All depends on what the couple agrees on. Some think it's cheating and some don't. Personally I don't think it's cheating cause it's the same as watching a movie

  • Not exactly cheating, but if it feels wrong, tell him, if he wants to continue watching porn instead of being with you, drop him

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Most guys watch porn, it's not cheating it's adult movies, nothing more, like romance novels.

  • No, it's not. Grow the fuck up.

  • He's horny, not trying to replace you with videos and pictures.

  • No because it is passively watching a pre-recorded video the same as if you watched a movie with a sex scene in it.

    If he was doing something interactive with a live person on the other end, that would be cheating in my opinion, but watching a pre-recorded video is not. Just like sexting, even if it is only text with another person would be cheating since it is interactive.

  • Considering that most men, and many women, watch porn, if that's cheating, then most of humanity are guilty of cheating. Most people don't consider watching porn cheating. Cheating involves interactions between at least 2 people, not just watching. And some couples enjoy watching porn together.

    Maybe you can watch porn with him. It's not that bad, and you'll get a better understanding if why he watches it.

  • No, because it is not interactive like a cam girl. Look at it as trading video.

  • Nope

  • Nope. How? He's not fucking any of those broads, is he?

  • I part ways with most men on this. I think it is absolutely cheating. This isn't, "A pretty girl walked by and I noticed." That is normal. He is seeking this out. Pornography destroys a lot of relationships.

  • I’m not sure if cheating is the most accurate word, but it’s certainly wrong no matter what you call it.

  • Nope.
    If you think it was, then maybe you need to re-check your grasp of reality.

  • Not at all. Porn is not real. It's something you don't have and maybe don't want in real life. I enjoy incest porn, I don't want anything approaching it in real life.

  • No. This comment only needed to be 2 letters long but gag requires longer comments.

  • stop touching his phone

  • Of course not

  • yeah

  • No, not at all.

  • It can be

  • Well it could lead to that but it not really dear

  • not at all, ask to watch it with him

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