Is it common due to lack of friction during a blow job it’s common for guys to only be 70% hard not 100% during the entirety of a blowjob?

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strawberryjammer · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it has to do with blood flow. If you stand up as a guy, and kinda flex your whole mid-section it seems like that makes the biggest hardest boner.

If the guy has had lots of orgasms lately it’s also not usually quite as hard.

MotorcycleMan · Accepted Answer

There are so many things that come into play with being hard/not hard that it would be difficult to pin it on any one thing, but it's simple enough to apply a little more friction (pressure) with your lips.

Chimzi777 · Accepted Answer

Lack of friction, like I don't get it hold it with the hand if it's too slippery

Lowiu · Answer

No all guys always got fully hard for me

LeeannaDD · Answer

There's no lack of friction when I'm doing it lmao

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Yeah, just general lack of stimulation. The woman doesn't use suction, lick enough, that kind of thing.

Trpkjr · Answer

Never had that problem when giving head

genericname85 · Answer

I mean some guys are just not that into blowjobs xD maybe that's the reason.

Ironic_Method · Answer

There can be a lot of reasons why he's not 100% hard during a blowjob. Also, despite popular opinion blowjobs are hard to pull off.

Nikki6t6 · Answer

Not really… unless the dude has insane willpower to holdback his boner or if he has been drinking.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, Id say that's more uncommon.

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Perhaps if he's drunk or stressed out

skyplusremote · Answer

Yes but he could be nervous

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

It is False, Lack of Erection essentially equals lazy female partner

Adam_West · Answer

Did you feel it when it was 70% in your mouth?

Tommyy12 · Answer

He's either not fully turned on or he's nervous. If you are blowing him for a long time he might get soft for a bit.

Seppel · Answer

What? There is much more friction than during sex

beefy40 · Answer

no, it means he's not aroused enough.

MasterKS · Answer

you need to learn skill.

Anonymous · Answer

I could be wrong but at least 70% of my penis is insensitive. Probably more. Stimulation of my penis south of the crown is wasted effort. If she focuses on just the first inch then the erection is firmer and the whole BJ much more pleasurable. There are other enhancements that are worthwhile. Anal play, perineal massage, nipple stimulation for example.

Anonymous · Answer

If the guy is turned on he will be 100% hard regardless of the friction, unless you're using teeth in his dick. If a BJ lasts for a long time, it is possible his dick could become softer.