Is it common in long term relationship for the guy to stop wanting to go down on the girl?

To go through phases of not doing it every time you have sex because they aren’t “in the mood to”. And maybe have phases of weeks- months of this. But then go through phases of every time doing it?
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Superb Opinion

  • This is what I kind of see a lot of times is I don't think it's common I think it is something that everybody allows themselves to get comfortable and just forget about it which I think is totally wrong your first are going out you're all happy you're all jazz I mean you want to please each other and day by day goes on can you give yourself a pass because you're tired or you just don't feel like it today and next thing you know 20 years ago to buy the ladies on Gag and I wish my husband would get a boner can bone me the guys on Gag he said I don't know why my old lady just yells at me all the time I don't do anything wrong I just sit here on the couch and watch TV minding my own business when you allow things to go that far things just kind of stopped you got to create me things every day every week

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think they were always ups and downs and sexual relations in long-term relationships. If both parties want to keep enjoying each other in more ways than just intercourse, they have to fully invest in making their partner happy and enjoy the experience.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Hmm nope. They either like to eat pussy or they don't. May be a day when someone who likes it may refuse, making up an excuse, for a reason like hygiene or smth, but never a "phase". Unless is an STD who messes up your bacteria and stuff, then you have to see your obgyn

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Personally I like to give her oral everytime as part of the foreplay. I usually give her 3 or 4 orgasms orally before I slide into her.

  • No guy would get tired of that unless your hygiene has changed.

  • I go down more with time. I love doing it so when I’m with a girl longer I’ll usually get a little more freaky. I can’t imagine not wanting to do it.

  • I have ccx yet to have an instance of wanting sex but not wanting to eat her out. We've been dating for over 3 years

  • No I love it my last girl was with her for years she had stop me

  • I've been married for 27 years and never went through a phase where I didn't want to give her oral.

    • Is it a new generation thing my friends have gone through the same thing but with sex

    • Maybe. It wouldn't be the first thing younger generations do that I don't understand.

  • Both sides get lazy in long term relationships

  • I wouldn't get tired of it

  • Everytime I can do my best to make girl happy...

  • loosing interest.

  • Yes. How do you go?

  • Not really, most guys don't get to eat as much pussy as they want.