Is it common to think about someone else during sex?

Have you ever thought about someone else or your girlfriend/boyfriend’s friend during sex? Is it ok to do that and would you forgive if your girlfriend/boyfriend told you that they think about them sometimes?
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Superb Opinion

  • I wouldn't be able to handle that, if my girlfriend told me that I wouldn't want to have sex with her anymore. I've never done that myself. If you're gonna thinking about someone else while having sex then you might as well has sex with that guy rather than me it sounds like.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm not sure how common it is but no fucking way would I stay with a girl who told me that she thinks about someone else (even worse if it's my friend)

    • My boyfriend told me that (asked him because it was so obvious) he was thinking about my friend. It just makes me sad and disappointed. I’m just not good enough for him. That’s why. I wish I had a better body than her. I’ll just be positive! This is a good motivation to workout and get a bigger 🍑!! Thank you for your reply:)

    • What led to him telling u that? Did he just randomly tell u that or did u somehow just figure it out?

    • I asked him because it was so obvious and he doesn’t lie even when he has to like not to hurt someone’s feelings. But I guess I should appreciate his honesty.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • The person you think may have affected you so much.
    Why were you affected by that person? What do you think?

    • It’s actually not me who thinks about someone else. My boyfriend told me that he thinks about someone else (my friend ). I feel like I’m not good enough for him. I also read an article saying it’s ok to think about someone else. So I guess it’s ok. But I’m like, why her? If you think about her then it doesn’t have to be me. Choose her. Thank you for your reply:)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I am sure it is. I never have and as far as I know my partners never have. That said I don't think either of us would have confessed it if we did.

  • It's very common. I wouldn't worry about it.

  • It is ok because the person you are having sex with is not blowing your mind with jaw-dropping sex.

  • It probably is common and no I would not forgive.

  • Its happens a lot more than people admit too I think

  • Yes its normal

  • I don't think so..

  • yeah i guess this would be common , obviously people who do it