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  • I'm not sure what it is that makes sex a commodity or a form of remuneration when it comes to sex. Women have the potential to enjoy sex more than men. They have an organ whose only reason for existence is to receive pleasure- and it has far more nerve endings capable if receiving pleasure than any place, including his cock, on a guy. They are also much more likely to have multiple orgasms than a guy. They can cum from a variety of erogenous zones. The only downside is that guys are usually capable of getting turned on enough to cum much more quickly than girls. I think girls need to insist on the degree of foreplay that they want before orgasm. There is nothing about getting a girl turned on that isn't a turn on for the guy doing it. Granted there are some guys who, for whatever reason, of going down on women. I think that women should insist on getting head from any guy wanting it from her. So sex shouldn't be treated as a reward that is given by girls. It should be equally hot for both parties and there are no reasons why a woman shouldn't want it as a man. She might need to make sure some things are clear from the start, e. g. giving and receiving head.
    Maybe the question was simply phrased in a way that made it sound like a quid pro quo for a night out. If you want it do it. If one of you wants it and the other is ambivalent, talk about it. Whenever you decide to do it, make sure you cum as many times as possible, it's your birthright.
    If you go for it

Most Helpful Guy

  • No, it's not. Some guys will they to pressure you into sex. That's not nice and is a sign they don't care about you at all. Have sex if YOU want to have sex and can do it safely (condom and contraception). You can't trade sex for love or commitment. You can trade it for money, but hey paid up front.

    If you only have sex because YOU want it, then you won't ever feel that you were used or "played".

    • Ignore the haters throwing the ugly term "slut" around. That's just something people call young women having more sex than they think is appropriate. If you want to have sex with someone, whether you've known them five months or five weeks or five days or five hours or five minutes, take the necessary precautions and do what you want. Never apologize, never explain.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, it is not. You are never obligated to have sex with anyone under any conditions. Only time you should have sex, is when everyone involved wants to do it.

  • No way... absolutely NO !!!

    It's something you save for someone special... when it feels right for BOTH OF YOU !!!

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  • You never owe somebody sex unless you are married and even then it’s preferred but cannot be forced

  • Nope, not at all. A quick kiss used to be customary, but I know a lot of girls on here say they don't even do that now.

    If some guy tells you it's customary, he's lying. He's probably someone you don't want to go out with again. Don't let him pressure you into sex.

  • Not customary at all. If he expected it that would be a huge turn off for me. If we had a lot of chemistry and it happened. That would be fun.

  • No, it is not customary and you should never have sex with someone simply because you think it is expected.

  • No, and unfortunately that mentality is partly the reason why so many women have bad experiences with men who think they're entitled to sex when they're not.

  • No it’s bloody well not.

    it’s the type of thing you do when you feel like it, not because it’s expected.

    definitely not if the guy is expecting it,

  • No and don't ever think you have to 2 because that's your body your choice so don't ever think just because you got taken out on a date that you have to have sex because you go don't ever think that you do anything with the guy that you have to have sex because you don't

  • It really depends on you
    I would wait personally until you feel good about it but usually not the first date if you want the guy to be more than a one time thing.

  • It is not. Why should the girl feel compelled to give the guy sex for a date? Having sex always will always be your choice... don't feel like you have to do anything.

  • No, it's customary to have sex when you want to. Relationships aren't transactional.

  • No definite no

  • NO!
    You date to get to know each other, and if the feeling is right, especially for you, then yes if you want to have sex, then go ahead - be careful and smart please.
    But date a few times to see if the guy is a good guy, treats you well, respects you, etc.
    Do not jump in bed just because he took you out to the movies and bought you a hamburger.

  • If he bought you dinner and drinks and entertainment, the least you can do is give him a blowjob.

    • Wow it would be a nice place for guys If the world would be like that but it would make all women prostitutes

    • @Seppel if a woman doesn't wanna be a prostitute, she should pay for her own dinner. So she has a way out of sex.

  • Lol no it shouldn’t be like that and I personally believe it’s wrong that society has trained us to think that it is customary. I personally want a girl that respects herself

  • That is up to you

  • Usually within the first 3 or 4 dates.

  • Depends on the date, I suppose.

    Not every date works out, and not every date has a happy ending at the end.

  • NO NO NO NO NO

  • Nope

  • Not initially, but if it is an ongoing exclusive relationship, maybe. But by giving sex away cheaply, you set its and your value.

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