Guys, Is it degrading to ask a girl if she can deepthroat?

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  • This entirely depends on the context of your relationship and the rapport you have with her. If you have a good connection with a girl and she finds you attractive, or if she's made it clear that she's very open about sexual topics and conversation, then, sure, you can ask. Otherwise, she's LIKELY to take offense to the question, whether she makes her offense known to you or not.

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  • Depends on how you do it I would say, in pornography they degrade women all the time with writing on their forehead and butt and all that crap, tying them up and stuff but the act itself I don't think it's degrading the person unless they make it that way.

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  • No. Deepthroating isn't degrading. Are you thinking of facefucking maybe?

    • what's the difference?

    • Well deepthroating is passive. It's basically a blowjob technique. The key is, that it's the GIRL who is in control over everything pertaining to "deeptrhroating". She chooses whether to do it, when exactly (usually deepthroating will be ONE of the ways she sucks, but she can mix-it-up however she wants). You can think of deepthroating as "an advanced technique some women are able to do better than others". However, there is absolutely nothing whatsoever degrading about it. There is no power-dynamic whatsoever involved in deepthroating (at least no power-dynamic not inherent in any blowjob). Facefucking (or throatfucking) is a whole different thing. That IS degrading. It's meant to be degrading. It's basically what it sounds like. The woman is 100% passive, and while she does indeed "deepthroat" she has zero control whatsoever. A guy basically fucks her face/throat hard and violently with no regard to her choking, gagging, or even puking. It's very much a power-dynamic situation, with the girl playing an exrtremly submissive role; and the man playing an extremely dominant one.

    • This is something that's become more popular among some of the more violent-fetish-type porn. Facefucking and throatfucking are very common parts to "consensual non-consent" (rape-play) type sex. It can be fine, in the context of a healthy BDSM type relationship. BUT it's also extremely common for guys who are legitimately fucked up and misogynistic to be into. Some guys into it totally understand where it can fit into a healthy sex-life, if it's something both partners are into (and there certainly are girls who are into being facefucked. But certainly not "your average girl."). A lot of guys who want to facefuck legitimately think women ought to be degraded, and enjoy doing it because... they've got some legitimate fucked-up issues with how they look at women. They are DEAD SERIOUS about the defradation part. They are night-and-day different. Deepthroating is just an advanced blowjob technique and not at all degrading. Facefucking or throatfucking is about as degrading as degrading gets. On purpose. 🙂

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  • I thin it is. Guys se that shit on the porn they watch and think every girl likes to do it.

  • If she is currently giving me a blowjob, I might feel like it was appropriate to ask this. Otherwise, this is not something I would bring up.;

  • I think its degrading. I guess if you are into that kind of stuff and it is important to your relationship, but there are more important things on my mind than knowing whether she can deepthroat.

  • It isn't appropriate to ask random girls on the street that. But during a sexual encounter why not?

    • why is that?

    • Why I shouldn't I ask female strangers if they can deepthroat or why I can ask a girl I am having sexual activity with, if she can deep throat? While things are more sexually open now, I would thing some girls would find it offensive to be asked about their sexual skills by strangers. If a girl is engaged in sexual activity with me why shouldn't I be free to ask for a specific type of sexual activity?