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Is it disrespectful to a man if he cums in your mouth and you don’t swallow? Or do you guys don’t care?
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What Girls & Guys Said
21 67It's her choice and I'll respect that.
(But it is a turn on if she does)
Omg yes it’s SOOOOO disrespectful!!! I can’t believe you don’t wanna do that! Guys are so badly treated and oral is nothing, NOTHING for them of u don’tswallow!!! >:-( (sarcasm)
If a dude gets mad you you not swallowing then he doesn't deserve head
It wouldn't matter to me if a girl doesn't want to swallow my semen that is her choice and I would respect her for that I don't have a girl but if I did that is how I see things and if she didn't want to give me oral pleasure that would be fine
It's her choice and never a deal breaker. If she does it can create a very close intimate bond and a feeling of total acceptance for the guy.
I wouldn't say it's disrespectful. A lot of girls don't like the taste of cum and that's alright. The truth of it is, those girls are not as kinky though. All guys or at least most of them (including myself) get really turned on when a girl has "accepted him" by the action of either swallowing or letting him cum on their face or something. Our biological disposition is to be dominant and this action is a form that allows the man to be just that. It also shows a level of comfort that really makes him appreciate the girl. I don't think any guy dislike or hate girls for not swallowing or allowing the guy to cum on their face. But it is somewhat disappointing.
I find it disrespectful not to swallow. But then again... if forcing her to swallow means she'll never give me a bj again, then there's no other choice to let her spit. :(
I wouldn't say its disrespectful but id probably wonder why she didn't since its already in her mouth
THERE IT IS!!! What I've been saying for years now... the questions of a porn addict!!
It comes from watching fake-sex porn. Yes, it's ALL fake.
Next it's...
Are all women bi?
Does everyone like group sex?
Where should a guy cum on a girl?
Do all women like anal sex?
Why is my dick so small?
Why is my vagina so ugly?
What a fukkin joke.
Tsk, tsk, tsk. You might have a point brownie. The "all women are bi" thing KEEPS arising much to my consternation! Someone did have a most offensive post about wanting a woman with a "particular" look to her nether regions and said if she didn't he'd pay for the plastic surgery and "what was wrong with that!" He HAD the woman he was with in mind... These folk must be watching an awful lot of porn, is all I can say. Dramas with people's clothed bodies and conversation that doesn't center on "put that here," are my preferences. Maybe porn addicts are all online where they can hide.
@Screenwriter Of course they are. They've been programmed to think all that depravity is okay, even good. Really sick people. All porn is fake. It's a billion-dollar industry. Sick and depraved.
I’ve gotten curious and tasted it once and didn’t like it, so I wouldn’t blame her if she didn’t want to.
If his sense of confidence is dependent upon a swallow or two, you need to find better guys. As long as you don't spit in my face, no problem- whatever.
No its everyone's right to choose if they want to swallow or not
It is the best thing a women can do during bjs. It is ber sign of trust in the man
No, it's not disrespectful. If you don't want to swallow, I think it's totally okay if you want to spit it out instead.
But if you do swallow, I think it's really hot and sexy.
Personally I don't care. If a girl doesn't like swallowing, why should I be disturbed or force her to do so.
The man is going to disrespect YOU if you do that... that’s only something that happens in porn. If it turns you on to swallow, go for it but def don’t if you don’t want to. It’s not disrespectful to him to not swallow. That’s a crazy lie some 14 year old boy prob told you
That doesn't me one bit.
yes. semen something holy. You should always swallow his love.
I guess I don't care if she wants to spit it out it's fine with me or she swallows I am good with that to. My friends with benefits likes to play with it when she gives me a blowjob. She like blowing bubbles with it and rubbing it on her body. Also the couple times we had another girl for fun they both have me a blowjob and they shared my cum.
Nope, up to you. For me personally, as long as she finishes the blowjob until I'm completely done, I couldn't care less what she does with the stuff afterwards. It's not gonna somehow retrospectively ruin my orgasm.