Is it easier to get laid as a man or a woman?

[Anonymous]

[inhua]

it's easier for a woman to get laid. for a dude to get laid, he needs to bring some sort of value whether its financial, genetic, social etc.

[Anonymous]

Its ten times easier for women to get laid.

[chrissykerdock]

a woman all she has to do is put on a short dress go into a bar and she'll get offers to get laid... and free drinks.

[fushialight9]

I'm terrible at attempting to talk to a woman.

[MCheetah]

It's easier as a woman to do EVERYTHING, as long as it doesn't involve physical strength or logic.

[LazerBean]

It's easier as a woman. Because men tend to be more willing to be promiscuous and have much lower standards for who they sleep around with.

[Asker]

I tip my hat off to any guy that's getting laid a lot because that dude had to work hard to get to that point. No envy here

[LazerBean]

Lol you do that. I'll keep avoiding hoes like the plague they are.

[Apple1996]

Probably easier for women since there are a lot of desperate men out there

[Asker]

Is it desperate if by nature men are biologically hardwired to have sex with as many as possible?

[Apple1996]

They really aren't. Men are more wired to settle down then women are. Look at our society of women with 10 baby daddies compared to men with baby mamas they might have 2-3 since men are suppose to provide and protect their kids and kids mothers. By nature they have to settle down and women don't since they'd just be pulling in more men to protect them

[Asker]

Society just tells people what to think and what to believe. But by nature and biologically driven, men are hardwired to have sex with a lot of women. Why? Even though it doesn't happen a lot men want to procreate with a lot of women. Even though they dont act on the instincts.

[Apple1996]

Nah its been proven by science that men aren't meant to spread their seed like that. It's just a excuse for men that want to cheat. Also if you ever notice men who say that are always the ones with 0 kids. Once a woman gets pregnant they need a lot of sex and being cared for so men are meant to stick around and care for her

[Asker]

I never said that men should cheat or act on the instincts. But youd be lying to yourself if a man you're with or men that are in relationships don't see women they want to have sex with they just again dont act on it. And of course they're not going to tell you

[Apple1996]

Nah my guy def don't want other women like that. He said even if he got single he wouldn't get with someone else. That could just be cuz he already has so many kids so the need to mate isn't there anymore

[Apple1996]

There are truly some men that are 100% monognous and only want one woman. I think the ones that aren't like that just have trauma

[Asker]

Men will tell you whatever they need to tell you to get laid or keep you happy. Women fall in love with what they here. J didn't say they should nor will a lot of guys act on this. But you're delusional if you think that men don't see other women and have thoughts about what they want to do with that woman. They just don't act on it

[Asker]

Hear*

[Apple1996]

Only men who are cheaters are gonna have thoughts like that. I know for sure that mine doesn't. He can't even get hard from porn cuz the other women aren't attractive to him. I have to make porn for him lol

[Asker]

Keep telling yourself that. Men will look and have thoughts but can still be committed. That's normal. a lot of men do that but again don't act on the thought. If you two break up another woman would make him hard. Dont be ignorant

[Apple1996]

Eh my guy said he's offing himself if we ever break up so that prob won't be happening. And not all men are the same. Just cuz you are like that doesn't mean all men are like that. Some actually like their partners

[Asker]

In general most men are like this. People need to stop using exceptions or outliers. You can tell yourself whatever you need to but your guy is either lying to you or he's a rare exception which i doubt he is.

[Apple1996]

Most men think they are like this but it's really just trauma. Men overall don't have great sexual experiences so obviously they are gonna be looking for something better when they are getting shit or nothing at all. The men that start out with good sexual experiences are unlikely to seek out other women/sex

[Asker]

Trauma? Bro 😂. Even the men that have wives and have had sexual experiences see women they want to fuck but they don't act on the thoughts. You're trying so hard to convince yourself that men would only ever want to fuck their own partner which they should. But there will always be thiughts of wanting to do stuff with another they see but again its just thoughts

[Apple1996]

Even with this specific convo aside men (which id say about 90%) have tons of sexual trauma. Most lose their virginity in terrible ways, end up watching porn to early and it effects their brain or they are just greatly influences by religion/society thinking that they are some crazed sexual beings when they're just not. It's a sad world for men sex wise they don't get the experiences that they deserve. Ruins their relationships cuz they believe sex is the only way they can feel love. Men having thoughts like this while being in a relationship is just proof of this trauma. Very unfortunate you think it's acceptable to have thoughts about other women while in a relationship. Obviously I'm not gonna change your mind but it's truly just the trauma.. men are not like that by nature

[Asker]

Most men today aren't even getting laid. But the men that are in relationships still see women they'd want to fuck. Will they act on it? No. They already have a woman but the thought is going to pop up sometimes when they see an attractive. Don't feel insecure about it. Your man still loves you and wants to fuck you. But if he sees another girl thats attractive he will get thoughts but as long as he doesn't act on them you're fine

[Apple1996]

Most men that aren't getting laid. They the ones with trauma too lol And no I'm not insecure. I'm just with someone who doesn't have sexual trauma. If I was with a guy that had sexual thoughts about others I'd def be taking them to therapy to fix the issue

[Asker]

Keep telling yourself that. But i stand by what i say and we'll have to agree to disagree

[bubblegunnn]

Woman ofc.. its obvious whose being thirsty more lmao

[TheUniqueOne96]

Woman.

[Looksnicholas]

Certainly a woman, but I'm biased and I'm happy to be wrong.

[exitseven]

women have no problem getting laid.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know! I've never been laid as a woman! I'd GUESS they'd have a much easier time at it! All they have to do is lay down and spread their legs.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Mainly for biological reasons... Women

[TroyDT2]

On average, women. There are far, far more thirsty guys than girls. Of more bluntly, I'm an average looking guy. If I cold approach 50 women, I might get at most 7 or 8 "yeses" and that is just to go out. I might also get zero. An average looking woman can approach 50 guys and probably get at least 15 of them to agree to have sex that night.

[AndrésC64]

The people who said that it was easier for a man are either entirely stupid or trolls.

[joeldalton]

how is this even a question?

[Noodle_fan]

surely it is harder for men

that is why if you are guy and someone call you man whore , you should take that as compliment

[Anonymous]

Woman because we can have it, man because they go out and get it.

[Anonymous]

Obviously as a woman

[Anonymous]

Ummm...