Is it embarrassing I’ve never had penetration in my pussy from a dick ever and I’m almost 23? Guys would you still date a girl like that?

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I've made out, gave oral but never went all the way with a guy and I want to but I haven’t found the right guy and I worry this will scare him away or he will get turned off. I wanna experience it with someone who cares.
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  • First of all don't be embarrassed about something you believe in second of all be very very choosy and wise when you pick the person you pick you can ask any girl on here are they still with that same person that they picked and the odds are no most guys think of only themselves and if you think a guy like that and it's going to be a bad experience for you personally I like it because I would make it all about you I would tease you so much I would roll you over on top of me get your hips it just right and slide you forward and push you back glad you forward and push you back all in slow motion until you were soaking wet and then I still wouldn't put it in I would act as if I was going 2 Can You Feel My Body Energy pushing pressured into you as if I'm going to go in is it would penetrate just a little bit but I thought right back out and tease you some more I wouldn't be in any Rush but I would make it all about you so you have the best experience ever I hope you can find that same guy that you do that to you you will absolutely love it

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  • First of all... the less partners a woman has had as she gets older the sexier she is in a man's eyes. Secondly, a woman who is a "virgin" older in life and especially at your age is consider very sexually desirable to a guy.

    It is hot as fuck.

    You are a prize to be won my lady. It is every man's dream to take a woman's virginity.

    Lastly, and this is important... if a guy asks why you are a virgin say exactly what you said in the update. "I want to experience it with someone who cares."

    That is the mindset of a high quality woman. A woman any man would like to date. Guys get really bothered by the idea of other guys being deep inside their lady. Guys are very visual and they get grossed out by the idea. Most women your age have had 5 to 10 sexual partners. Especially in college a lot of ladies are free and having a good time experiencing what it is like to have sex with different guys. Then with dating apps after college.. women are living alone for the first time and experiencing the freedom of free time after work. They feel more like an adult. So then comes another phase of dating app guys coming to their apartment without having to worry about a roommate 15 feet away from them in a dorm room. So then ladies will get even more sex during that phase.

    So ladies lie about their number of partners out of embarrassment. And guys get intimidated about knowing a woman's real number because they get jealous and insecure about their penis size.

    So you are the best and ideal woman a guy would want to be with for those reasons.

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  • IS it embarrassing? That's up to you. I don't think you'll find many guys for whom it's a problem, though; of those who think it's a big deal, I think it's more likely to be a positive than a negative.

    The one thing to watch out for is that without experience (at whatever age you get it), it's harder to know what you like and enjoy, and it's very easy to fill your head with ideas of "the first time" being something magic and wondrous, when it's often awkward and fumbly. Yes, sexual behavior is instinctual, but that doesn't always translate to it being GOOD: the real takes time and practice to get to; ideally with someone you can get to know, sexually speaking.

  • If you were up front about it, accepted my flaws, and we made each other feel happy when we spent time together, yeah.

    It would be a pain to figure out what you like, and teach you what I like, not going to lie there, but let's be honest here. Sex is so little of what you do in a relationship out of all the hours you have in a day.

    You have your life, I have my life, we have the time we spend together, and maybe if we both work hard to make that time an hour a day together fooling around. Possible, but more likely 15 minutes if you figure 30 minutes every other day or something more realistic. If those other 23 hours a day are with a smile on my face when I think of you, and vice versa, the effort is worth it.

    Don't get so stressed out over a detail like that. It'll ruin relationships before you can get into them because the strain won't allow you to enjoy yourself. What's it called, a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  • I wanted to marry a girl like that.
    She had other plans though.

  • No, it's not embarrassing at all, Yes I would date a virgin.

    Most guys won't have a problem with such things. But make sure that when you're ready, don't hide that fact. I'd always like to know ahead of time to make sure that I'm gentle and careful. Otherwise I'm a wrecking ball.

  • I don't think I'd care personally, as a virgin, as long as the person is clean.

  • If the guy is the right one for you I am quite certain that will not turn him off ! To me it's extra-special for my pns to be the very first to penetrate a girl's vagina (and I have been fortunate to have been the first with 2 girls, both of whom are still close friends, and trust me, it was an unforgettably special experience each time)

    • Do you think I’d regret it if I just hooked up? I don’t wanna regret it but I get so sad and frustrated never had that experience and I’m not sure what to do, covid didn’t help. And really? That sounds so sweet and lovely to hear. I just haven’t found a guy I connect with and the bummer is I was gonna go to college then boom Covid-19 hit and now I’m using apps to see what happens but no luck yet :(

    • Would be happy to discuss more by pm if you follow me?

  • Of course, if I were single, I would date a 23 year old virgin. I'd rather date her, than a girl with a high body count.

  • Most guys would prefer you over other girls for that trait, but above all else they want to be physically attracted to you. If they find you physically attractive then never having penetrative sex is an extremely desirable trait for men.

    • you just have to watch out for the wolves out there that are only after one thing and hopefully your smart enough t know who is a wolf and who isn't

  • No. Yes.

  • Of course, why not?

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