Is it fine to visit an escort or have sex with someone else if you aren't getting sex from your partner/wife?

My sex life just sucks and it isn't happening even if I talked about it with her. I am not able to manage my sexual feelings.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No, there's no excuse for cheating. If you're not getting your needs met, seek marriage counseling. If you feel like you've exhausted all options, then consider getting divorced. It's not ideal, but life is too short to stay in an unhappy situation that has no potential of improving.

  • Have you talked about this with your wife? Maybe you guys can find a compromise..

    • Tried all options not getting worked out. One thing am sure is she isn't cheating on me but my needs aren't getting fulfilled.

    • Damn dude. Well I think it’s important to decide like how significant having sex is in your relationship. Sucks when you and your partner have different sex drives and sucks even more when they won’t compromise. Sounds like your only options is to just deal with it, or divorce her before you cheat. If you want to avoid those things then I could suggest talking to her about letting you get with other women, but that rarely ever is successful.

    • Sometimes I feel like pulling my hair out in frustration, because frankly speaking I don't want to cheat. Trying my best, would like to be faithful. Am happy your words helped me!!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Either get marriage counseling or sex therapy, or a divorce if you can't cope with no sex. Cheating is never the answer. Have you suggested trying new things with your wife? Maybe roleplay or toys, maybe a threesome.

  • in my opinion, either the two of you need to go to marriage counselling, or you need to divorce. Do not waste years of your life allowing things to remain as they are.

    • It gets wasted buddy, due to some commitments. So many problems are there in life. Generally my life is quite stressful and am not getting my needs fulfilled too. Thanks for the support here.

    • Yes, but don't just let things go. Be active about making changes, or nothing will get better (and it will likely just get worse). I'm not trying to beat up on you at all, but it would be good for you if you figured out the mistakes you made to get you here, so that you don't repeat them. The last thing you want is to have to go through this again, but you absolutely CAN do better - it just takes some work and accepting that maybe some of your thinking needs to change. I know I'm getting ahead of the situation here, but it doesn't sound like fixing the current situation is likely, so you need to be thinking about the future.

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  • That isn’t ethical. If you’re not afraid of stds and a divorce than go for it I guess

    • But when things wint work out at all even after trying to get sorted out still you say it isn't ethical?

    • If you get your wife’s permission than sure, but if you don’t and it’s hurting your marriage a lot than separate till y’all work things out

  • Break up then do it.

  • ask your wife; she'll tell you

  • I might

  • I see nothing wrong with that

  • It's definitely not fine but equally do you care? My sex life at home is shit so I occasionally go se prostitutes. My advice is don't have an affair as the other woman could tell your wife have sex with prostitutes, there's pretty much no chance of getting caught aslong as you don't spend too much money that your wife notices and you account for the time you were gone.