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  • Not at all. Unfortunately, some people still assign sexual orientation to certain sexual acts, especially the non-vanilla (“kinky”) types. It’s a terrible and inaccurate stereotype that if a man asks or allows a woman to perform dominant actions (spanking, whipping, pegging, et al), he is not the “man” of the relationship or his masculinity is eroded due to his submissiveness. Even if those claims were true, that is still not a matter involving sexual orientation. It would be a question related to gender roles and how those affect and shape relationships. Being a submissive man does not equate to homosexuality, and neither do any claims that submissive men are “less of a man”, “not wearing the pants”, etc. Those who make these claims are bigots and offend the entire gay community (and other groups who are targeted because of who they love and/or have intimate relationships). I understand the offense they take, as homosexual men are *men*, period. They are human beings like everyone else, and are not the “owners” of sexual kinks like spanking.

    I hope this helps, and if it does, please share it. Ignorance leads to fear, fear leads to hate. Education and being properly informed benefits everyone.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Definitely not. I lean towards the sub end of the equation. Loved it when my first girlfriend used a cane on my ass when I was 20, when my fiancée tied me up and teased me mercilessly and when my wife slaps my balls while I'm going down on her to "encourage" my tongue.

    Spanking is just part of sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, I've seen straight guys stick out their butt and give it a little wiggle around a group of women and they smack it.

    • Wow! I guess you enjoyed it

    • I was on the other side of the pontoon, so I wasn't one of the girls. He was also drinking and just so happens to be a ladies man.

    • Would you do it if you were one of them?

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  • No. A man wanting to do a sexual activity with a woman is the definition of heterosexuality

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  • That's weird to me. It puts me in a submissive position. But I don't know if it's weird. Probably definitely not gay if he has girlfriend and wants her to do it. Is that like a mother thing?

  • I'd say no. Some guys like getting spanked.

  • "Girlfriend" implies probably not gay

  • Nope! Some people are just into pain and want their butt smacked. I like mine being clawed during sex, personally, so I can relate. I also enjoyed that before I came out to myself as bisexual, so I enjoyed it while I thought I was straight.

  • I think you missed the lesson on sexuality and sexual attraction etc.

    • I never heard of guy wanting to be spanked

    • There are Dommes, as well as Dom’s. The former will often have male subs. These could be people in high profile, high stress jobs, lots of judges etc have been found out visiting them

  • No, not at all. I consider myself extremely fortunate whenever I'm successful in getting a woman to beat that ass, whether she has a boyfriend of her own or not.

  • “Gay”? …. seriously? You and I both know that it is not, and your use of that derogatory term in this context is not appreciated.

    • Update he’s actually is gay

  • No. It's gay if he wants his boyfriend to spank him.

  • "Is it gay if a guy wants his girlfriend to..." probably not, no.

  • Nope not at all.
    She might enjoy doing that to you, or having it done to her.

  • Weird.

  • No it’s not

  • ig not gay but a thing a sub guy would want maybe

  • Not gay. More like weird

  • No. Next question

  • No, it's a kink. It's normal and it was a kink of mine once upon a time when I watched a lot of porn. It's being turned on by lacking power or control and getting pain as a result from an attractive women. It's certainly not gay

  • Not really, maybe a kink or fetish

  • Gay is with the same gender. How stupid can you be

  • Kinky, but I don't know about gay.

  • Not at all

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