Is it gay to have sex with a trans?

(They've still got it but look like a woman when clothed)

If you voted yes, would your answer change if they had the chop?
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  • I had this good friend of mine in Uni, entirely hetero who loved pussy, who one night ended up with a beautiful girl who happened to be a trans (no surgery, dick and all). She was gorgeous looking and truly looked like a girl, and he and I had talks because he was very concerned about the fact that he actually liked her.

    I assume their sex life was "gay alike" due to the limitations of the sexual organs involved, and I'm pretty sure he yet enjoyed it. But trust me, I don't care if this trans had a dick and balls full of sperm, she was astonishing, looked like a female supermodel.

    So it's difficult to say. I'm a bit bicurious so I would not say no to a dick if certain circumstances occured, but I don't feel attracted at all by the male gender. It's just a sexual perversion of mine. And I love women to bits, too much at times. So if I had been in the position of this friend of mine? I might have gone the same path, although by then my morality blocked my bicurious tendencies. But if I think about it, it is a jack pot: I can fulfill my bicurious pervesions but yet with a hot girl...

    It's odd. Too odd to think too much about it.

    As a conclusion, I don't think that would necessarily mean that person is gay (could be or could no). It would mean he is very open about his sexuality and probably either bicurious (in which case the relationship will not last) or bisexual with a dominant hetero tendency towards female beauty, despite not disliking sex according to genitalia. At least I never considered my friend was gay. He never liked men and never tried to hit on any, on the contrary he loved women, that's why he ended up with a super hot trans...

    • Yeah good talk

  • Fellas... 🤔

    Seriously though no it is not gay to have sex with a woman, even if she has a penis because of the way she was born. If she presents herself as a woman and you can acknowledge she's a woman (does she have breasts for example, which can help you get over that mental hurdle) then there is nothing gay. If all you can think about is her genitals then there's a chance you're suppressing some latent sexuality and you might be really bisexual using a transwoman as a stepping stone because of her genitals to the male sex.

    • insightful

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah Cause They Were Born A Male. Even If They Get Boobs & Chop Of Their Dick, They Still A Dude.

  • Pre-op, definitely bisexual at least. Post-op, desperate.

    • Why desperate?

    • That part was more of a joke. I’m sure there could be other reasons.

    • The woman is a woman, trans or not.

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  • First date bring up obviously (I hope). Otherwise trust issues are created for starters

  • It is yes, in the sense that to do and enjoy something sexually with male genitalia is based in a homoerotic tendency. Which is ok. If that person were to get surgery I would more likely say no. That second part of the question makes it go from obvious to something more philosophical and semantic. But the real answer anyway is why does it matter what it's called. It's either something your into or not forget titles. Have the good sex. Not the gay or straight sex.

  • rofl. its a dick, but she has boobs. i think its probably more complicated than gay, or you would find a guy to fuck.

    i think it makes you bi curious at best.

  • Total homo, regardless of whether they have or haven't 'had the chop'.

  • It's not gay at all. Trans women are what they feel they are, which is women. They may have a penis, and they may have had it removes to become more feminine, but regardless of that, she is still a woman in heart and mind if not physically. The same goes for a trans man. Now for the reason you may be attracted to one aside from them simply being another woman is that they would understand you a lot more than a biological female would ever be able to. That alone is a turn on for most men.

    • not sure about the understanding part.

  • No, she's chosen to be a woman. If you're not attracted to her because of her 'masculinity', how could it be gay? Just because of the parts she was born with? Pfffft

  • Well I got no issue with being gay but yeah its pretty gay.

  • If she still has boy parts, it's complicated, but if she has girl parts I would say it isn't gay.

    • It sounds legit

    • Good luck with her.

    • It's not complicated. If a woman wears a strap on and pegs her boyfriend is he gay? No he is just enjoying anal stimulation. Just because a woman is unfortunately born with a man's body doesn't mean she should be treated like a man.

  • Yeah pretty gay

  • Don't let people pressure you into thinking that. Your life, your choices.

    • okay

  • Yes.

  • Pre-op yes, post-op no. People need to realize that these people are women even if they have a Y chromosome.

    • Just because they're pre op doesn't mean they're not women.

  • If they have a penis, definitely gay.

    • And if it had been surgically removed?

    • Well if he had a fully functional vagina I guess it would depend on how feminine he looks. Most trans girls still look like guys, which makes it still kind of gay.

  • Nah, they were born a guy. That's gay. Find another term for it if you want, but for now it's gay.

    • I see...

  • Yes its gay

  • Kinda but not really (if that makes sense)

    • sort of..

  • Still gay

    • but its still ok right?

    • Not in my opinion

    • Why not?

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  • Yes, it is gay. If you are biologically wearing feminine outfits or having feminine proportions doesn't stop you from being a man, nor does having surgery from a gender change make it different. With surgery you are still biologically a man. You can't beat science. Just like a woman who goes through surgery to get a penis doesn't make her a man.

  • It's not gay having sex with a trans am.

  • Trans PERSON. They’re still a fucking human being. For Christ sakes.

    • oh calm down. they are a person regardless of whether we add person to their descriptive. next you will want us to say "person of the gemale gender" instead of woman.

    • lol. *female gender

    • Transwoman*, surely.

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