Is it good to watch porn while fucking?

[Okokdestany]

[Gentle1Professor]

I think that watching porn before you have sex is much better than trying to watch it while engaging in sex with your partner. I might be distracted by the porn by what the porn was showing and not concentrate on my partner's pleasure.

Looking at porn with my partner might put some interesting ideas in our heads about what we might like to try together or introduce some conversation about fantasies that we have been having but not sharing with each other. But, making sure my girl is not feeling left out while the porn is going on would be very important to me. Maybe if she was watching it while I was going down on her might be OK or if she was giving me oral pleasures while I watched.

I still would prefer that we watched it together, talked about what we liked, what we would like to try then have incredible sex together.

[TickleMyPickle4Fun]

If it is being done right, no need for the porn.

If it is bad enough that I need to watch porn to get off, then I am moving on. And the girl I am with will have her head thrown back and eyes closed in sexual bliss, so she won't be able to watch ANYTHING!

[mooky06]

I would find it difficult to concentrate. I rather focus on sex, then watch porn whilst having sex. I would want to focus on feeling pleasure and sometimes watching porn while having sex can really lose that connection/intimacy.

[Okokdestany]

Just friends told me it would spike up his interest.

[mooky06]

I would find watching the porn to be distracting

[katiesmuff]

Have had it on many times before, during foreplay and continued having it on during sex, but I don't pay much attention to it. It's just something different and every so often we might see something we want to give a try.

[kaylaS91]

Watching porn together for a short period of time before starting foreplay is a fun way to mix things up. I don't think I'd be able to watch porn, or at least focus much on it, while actually having sex though.

[madiangel]

we do it in parties. there are often a few screens running porn

[Lovelinefan]

Totally! That can be a safe, easy way to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

[AustinMan]

We enjoy it. Great warm up and if it's chosen carefully can be used to guide her to new heights.

[SmoMan]

It can be fun from time to time. Hearing multiple girls moan at the same time can be pretty hot.

[madhatters4]

i don't know that it's either good or bad by nature. i think it's just a preference thing for couple

[Mesonfielde]

I think that would just make me cum faster which is bad

[tenchu11]

If discussed or some how brought into it. Just turning it on nonchalantly comes off a bit... aloof

[cinderelli]

Hmm.. distracting.. don't you think

[Red_Arrow]

Exactly! You should be starring in your own porn when screwing (Not recording it, just making it porn worthy)

[cinderelli]

@Red_Arrow indeed.. 😁

[I_am_repulsive]

That is entirely up to you

[NotTheFBI]

That would make me fuck even more I think. I dunno I'm gonna have to try that. :P

[CaliSoccerFella]

I have nothing wrong with it.. nothing wrong with having some additional moaning in the background..
Some explicit words as well...
Though I've fucked during plenty of movies and never have her and I watched as we get down.. so not sure we'd watch the porn (but we'd hear it ;) )

[Muratek]

Well its not..

[Jared____]

Catfish much?

[Okokdestany]

Wow, I'll take that as a compliment.

[Okokdestany]

Want some proof? Lol

[Jared____]

Surrrrrre

[Okokdestany]

Haha, whatever. It doesn't even matter it's my picture and I mean you can believe it or not.

[Cowboy6666]

That would make me cum quickly.. :/

[Rocky96]

I think its not good, you can watch it before or after having sex.
Your mind will divert n you not get the full pleasure of your sex.
You're there for you, not for counting their rounds!! :) :)

[jakeofalltrades]

i think it is better not to. but i wouldn't be apposed to it

[masterkamasutra]

It can if that make you more go for it... some porn are so lovely to watch during fuck. just dont compare yourself with porn, the guys won't fuck non stop like that. lol

[Anonymous]

It can be at times.
I like you, you're kinky

[Anonymous]

Would you be offended if I was focusing on the girl in the porn while you were fucking the shit out of me via cowgirl?

[Okokdestany]

Personally I think I'd be looking at what the guy in video was doing and telling him he should do that to me. if he isn't appreciating me I'll leave bring him lotion and leave the room.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice. Thats cool to draw ideas from but its a bit selfish that sex with you is conditional to the point where you would leave halfway through the session.

[Okokdestany]

well, why would the girl have to do all the work? I think both should do a little something for their partner. I'm not going to keep doing things for him, to only have him watch another female (the whole time).

[Opinion Owner]

If you can perform better or are hotter than the porn star then you should have no problem maintaining his attention; but, you're the one who wanted to bring porn into the equation. If you want to be fucked like that then just say so. No need to get angry and just leave if he doesn't though because that's selfish. I focus on what I can give without expecting anything in return. But you focus on what you give and expect a return and if not reciprocated then you leave.

[Okokdestany]

I think it needs to be two ways, I mean OCCASIONALLY I'll give him what he wants with no return, but I'd want some special treatment many times I'll be selfish there cause I like the pleasure, and I was asking if it were a good idea to watch porn while fucking, it wasn't my idea I just heard it'll spread your sex drive a bit more. I mean that's just who I am.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, as long as you admit that you're selfish for leaving if he doesn't obey you like a sex slave. I understand you want the results of increasing your sex drive. I am just notifying you of side effects.

[Okokdestany]

I don't want him to be my sex slave I want it to be mutual. Jeez, I'm not going to tie his ass up and make him do shit, I'll ask him to do what I want then ask what he wants, so we both get it good.

[Opinion Owner]

What do you want to do exactly?

[Okokdestany]

I'm not going to talk about that right here. I just want a guy who is freaky and likes when I'm freaky.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, it's cool to make requests, but why get abandon him if he says no?

[Opinion Owner]

It's cool that you are a freak, I just think that there are boundaries and if you put on a strap on and I said 'NO' but you get angry and leave then good riddance.

[CaliSoccerFella]

nothing wrong with some kinky fun... it makes for a memorable connection ;)

[Okokdestany]

Not like that lol, I mean I want to be kinky just not like that, if it's a bit outrageous then I'll understand if he doesn't want to, then I'll suggest something else.

[Okokdestany]

But I don't wanna do the same things over and over.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker I get what you're saying. @Calisoccerfella Please stay out of our conversation. @asker I thought about it and I think that you expressing your wants and sexual needs is a healthy way of communicating to your partner and I highly encourage it. But I just think thought the 'I would just give him lotion and leave' was selfish. However, you expressed 'if it's a bit outrageous then I'll understand' but what is outrageous? How do you define outrageous? I just think that it's important to continue to communicate by defining and setting boundaries before going into it so that both parties feelings (or anal cavities) are not hurt.

[Okokdestany]

Like if he's not comfortable because I ask if he wants me to wear a strap on and he doesn't want that I'll understand. & I mean that lotion thing I would do if I felt he didn't even care I was fucking him, cause if he doesn't care then he can do it himself. If your saying if we watch porn he'll probably focus on the girl in the video over me, then no I won't watch porn with him then.

[Opinion Owner]

Here is a solution: Watch porn before and show him what you want done. It's like going into a haircut with a photo of how you want your hair cut. How is that?

[Okokdestany]

Well, see sounds much better. I always want to spice things up. I get bored quick.

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. Glad we could come to a compromise. See how easy that was? It just requires communicating like you and I just did. I do agree with you about the importance of expressing your needs and then taking it one step further to cum to a solution.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes that could be fun. But not all the time otherwise he'll think u r using him as a fuck doll. Lol