Guys, is it gross if I dress sexy in front of young male guests?

I love to show a bit of skin. I feel confident and sexy about it when they give me some attention. However, my little one who is 19 now keeps scolding me that I am showing way too much skin when in reality I mostly show my thighs. Is she right or am I?
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  • it depends on your body... but generally, NO... young guys like to see sexy girls and "skin", as it fuels their fantasies..
    your daughter doesn't understand yet, and she may be either a bit jealous or just a bit ashamed of her "old" mother dressing sexy in front of her friends...

    I would have a talk with her and try to get her to understand, and have her ask her friends how they feel... she may get the point that the two of you aren't any different, but just a span of years apart in age.

    its my personal opinion that young people who are not exposed to what could be considered a "sexual turn on", grow up with more of a prudish attitude than those who et the exposure when young...

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  • only gross if it's gross, ain't' it? and a practiced opinion would be a connoisseur of bare thighs, which probably doesn't include ur 19-year old daughter. if u feel sexy and confident and beautiful then screw everyone elses opinion as i see it, unless it literally is every single other person's opinion.

    • Correct. But, it bothers me a bit just because it's her opinion. I enjoy some attention though.

    • this is like philosophy stuff. maybe some people think ur are supposed to grow old, hide everything, and read books or sumthin near a fireplace with a black cat. i dont think so. we are sexual beings. so what? and we yearn to be loved, and admired, and share even dumb ideas. so what? u kill that spirit in u and then ur dead as i see it

    • Damn, you're too mature for a 13-year-old.

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  • What's really going on here? Are you jealous and in competition. They're there to see her, not you. Wear something classy but not trashy.

  • She's wrong. Keep being sexy and feeling good about yourself.

    Her problem would be related to the idea that kids think the idea of their parents having sex is gross even if their parents are only in their 30s. Kids eventually grow up, though.

  • If you are talking about guests in your home, you should be able to dress as you wish. Your daughter may be jealous that you attract more attention than she does. Or maybe her friends mothers dress more conservatively and she is worried about how your openness may reflect on her. Hopefully you can express your opinion to her and gain her acceptance of how you dress. And how you dress sounds very appropriate. If you wish to show your legs you should be able to be proud doing so.

  • It's not gross, but your daughter might find it embarrassing, especially if her peers start to become attracted to you

  • Every young man loves a MILF. You sound like you could be Stacy's mom, and that would mean that you've got it going on. Wish there were some pictures, so I could have better insight as to they type of attire you are wearing. But, as it stands I do not see anything wrong with it. You like to dress the way you dress.

  • You just do you whatever makes you comfy do it if you want to feel sexy you have ever right to

    • Yes, why not. I wanted to have your guys' opinion as I was caught in a bit of a dilemma.

    • Yeah just because your a mum doesn't mean you can't be sexy at all is just what everybodys kid would be thinking about there mum I think they just need to be more open minded and realise that we all have the same wants and needs no matter your age

    • You nailed it in one go. I love it when young guys compliment me stuff like sexy.

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  • Be the Example...

    Considering your daughter is now 19, the real question is what have you TAUGHT your daughter to do? Use that as your guide to answer your question.

  • How much we talking?

    • I did not get you.

    • How much do you show?

    • Thighs mostly.

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  • No, not at all.

  • completely up to you how you dress. its common for the young to think older people shouldn't dress sexy but what do they know

    • Obviously, I love to get some attention from young guys

    • well thats fine too

    • I love how they are interested in me showing some skin.

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