Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
conversly, girls is it hard to make a guy climax.
I am talking everybody. Handicaps, obese, LGBTQIA
How hard is it to make her or him climax give numbers, like time wise if you excel sheets or graphs much appreciated.
Specify what type of orgasm. Clit or G spot or Blended
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1I think we all are different and at times it depends on how long the foreplay lasted and how long it has been since one last masturbated or had sex.
Bro of course we are all different. Hence why I had asked the question
Well, I can only talk about me. Since you wanted detailed detailed statistics, here you go:
Guy 1: no orgasms (about 10 tries)
Guy 2: no orgasms (about 20 tries)
Guy 3: no orgasms (1 try)
Guy 4: plenty clitoral orgasms (long time relationship, "sucess" after 4th try, reliable orgasms since then, but only worked for oral and I had to put a lot of work into it to make the magic happen (speaking of building muscle tension and breathing and stuff))
Guy 5: no orgasms (3 tries)
Guy 6: one amazing clitoral orgasm during oral (5 tries, sucess after 5th time, and he didn't need much extra work from my side unlike Guy 4, very disappointed that I had to let him go)
I also have to say that I haven't had a G spot orgasm at all. So this might not be the guys fault.
I have also talked to some of my female friends about this and they have similar experience. I won't tell you about their exact numbers. But he have come to the conclusion that around 20 - 40 % of the guys out there are able to make a girl orgasm. Hope this information is helpful for you.
Thank you for your response. God Help us all. Those numbers are bleak. Are you obese? Were your partners fit? Any Comorbidities. Did you have previous experience masterbating before sex? (a lot of women dont even masterbate which blows my mind)
Did you feel that the size (Height, Penis, Wallet, Fingers) of the person made a huge different n your ability to even get an orgasm? Did you use "toys"?
Im normal weight and I do sports about 1-2 times a week. My partners were normal/average weight too. And I do masturbate. Its pretty easy for me to orgasm during masturbation too. So I guess thats not the problem.
Muscles help? Do you or did your SO's of that time watch porn? Were they or you into bdsm?
What made Guy 6 better then the rest?
No, none of that factors matter. And seriously, how should a guys wallet affect my ability to orgasm at all? If I had to name one factor that would make a difference it would most likely be how attentive you are about your partner. If you are aware of their reaction and body language and what they like and if you are willing to learn.
Oh, and I didn't use toys with any of them. I also dont use them on my own. I just dont like them because it feels to mechanical to me. I want to have sex with a person and not with some technical apparatus.
Wallet (Is a general name, there income status, and generally how calm there are about employment status.) There is a lot high anxiety jobs out there that kill libido. So not size of wallet but more status of employment.
I have heard from a lot women, that vibrators make a huuge difference. Why not integrate it into the foreplay? (well its mechanical as you said) Did you do anything bdsm like? are you into that sort of thng? (Just fyi I am, but lol you didn't ask for that lol)
Thank you for answering this question appropriatly.
I think the factors you mentioned are more important when it comes to choosing your partner, for some people more than for other. But when you're intimate mit them they dont really matter unless you have like a fetish for them. For wallet... I personally wouldn't want to date someone who is just sitting on his ass all day doing nothing. But thats basically it. For penisses... they do feel different of course, so maybe it makes a difference for the girls who are able to climax from penetration only but since Im not one of them its also not important to me. And since fingers and height are also more optical, superficial things, the dont matter at all. Muscles are also not really important unless you have enough of them to not get tired after 5 mins of action :) For your other question about guy 6 ... I dont want to go too much into detail, but he was just very enthusiastic and seemed like he really liked giving me pleasure. So that was very sexy
Enthusiasm really does make a huge difference for me as well. I remember dating the most beautiful girl (in my eyes). But she was very unenthusiatic when I was meeting with her, she said she liked me she laughed at my jokes but her eyes wandered her actions and responses werent towards me. She seemed distant and cold. I was constantly wondering when will she leave me, How can I optimize this relationship before I lose her before she gets bored or loses the spark. Despite being with her I felt more alone, I dont think I would have enjoyed having intercourse with her considering the above. That warmth and appreciation for another persons presence is very attractive. Showing signs of genuine affection and friendship and to look past ones flaws, and no tit for tat, and numbers game mentality (she had that size fetish) she said to me that I like who you are but I am not exactly attracted to you. Eventually in time I maybe attracted to you. lol I am just listing features and my trauma lol I am not with that girl I decided to focus on myself so that I can keep a loving relationship.
Put down the X-box and get out in the real world and you might not have to ask others basic questions about sex in your 30’s. Just saying…..
Likewise, you dont have to be rude about another person situation. lol What If I told you I did sleep with multiple women, I would still be asking this same question in regards to other women right? I dont want to ask women in the real world if it is hard to please them there going to think I am crazy (Like you just did right here lol) by the way I kicked the habit 1 year 9 month sober from Nintendo. I dont play Xbox or PS. :( it was during covid :( it happened when I vsing ny brother in law in ssbu he was touting big game. I played as Fox and played very seriously and destoryed him he started cheating and then purposly trying to side line the game putting it items cheating with low interest character like banjo spamming moves. I still beat him. But I realized that this isn't a situation that is garnering any type of reward irl. There was no translation. December 17 2021 i remeber this because it was near when my grandma passed away. Also I generally dont think most poeple gaming choices are good and most poeple who say they play vg ((Usually dont at least to the degree that I had during covid.)) regardless I dont associste with that part my my past. I am on my quest to get laid, saw friends not make it, I fight for them. I won't let there failure stay in vain. I am not asking all women, I am asking individually each woman what do you think are you are a hard customer to please in bed. ((Like if you were to ask me if I was a hard customer to please in Bed I would say Maybe depends how good of an actress you are and how hygenic you are and such. then elaborate further)))
Yeah just sayin...
Confucious says... Often Mastering and understanding the basics is key to mastering the Hardest techniques... in bed.
I am guessing this question is only appropraite for a toddler to ask... in your eyes. Why do I get poeple like you answering my questions?
I don’t know what that rambling incoherent manifesto was supposed to be but it’s becoming crystal clear why you don’t understand sex in your 30’s.
Can you give any opinion that isn't an insult?
I call it like I see it.
Your as good as useless why do you even waste your time on here.
Messing around with mouth breathers is an entertaining sport.