Is it hot if your girlfriend doesn't wear panties and likes to be naked, I think so, so why did my boyfriend act condescending?

I usually wear skirts up to my knee but I wear no panties or no panties under my stockings if I am not bare legged. My boyfriend at the time was shocked and said I am very naughty. Sometimes he would lift up my skirt and say oh baby! Because there would be no panties underneath. He was in shock. He said he is amazed at how comfortable I am naked. I would walk around his room naked or just lie in his bed naked relaxing. But at the end of our relationship he got nastier. He said "look at you just lying there naked. I think you are the most comfortable wits out your clothes on." And the way he said it I sensed a condescending tone in his voice. I thought that men would love this. Why is he so mean?
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Most other guys I was with loved it. Honestly he conned me. When we first started dating he interrogated me about what I had done with my ex sexually and put me on the spot forcing me to admit things that were private. And he would always say that's hot you don't wear panties damn. But a lot of times I didn't want to be sexual and he would tell me he wants it at the end of the night. I felt like he was punishi me. He was cruel in other ways too.
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  • He was not a 100% okay with it. Maybe 80%. He just got tired of it being sexual 100% of the time. He would have liked some balance. Its fun when things are sexy... but sometimes some modesty is nice as well. Basically you over did it for his taste.

    • We were not always sexual. He would initiate things and then make me feel like I am a whore after. Example at dinner he asked what I want to do after and I said take a walk. He told me he has other things in mind namely sexual things. He would hump my body and never make me orgasm and get up as soon as he finished and say "look at you just lying there naked." Because I wanted him to cuddle with me and he left me lying in bed like a product.

    • I wasn't trying to imply it as your fault... my bad. But if he mistreated you often... then he was not right for you. And based on what you just said... he does not sound like much of a catch.

  • Generally guys do love this... but at the end of the relationship, there might have been other factors at play that made such behaviour annoying for him..

    • He was the one who kept telling me he wants to get me to his bed. Or that he expects to get sexual later. I was happy just cuddling.

    • So, he may have been upset that there was what he saw to be a sexual display, but it was just comfortable to you. So, he got put out that there was no sex with the advertising... ;-)

    • I meant cuddling with clothes on. Outside bed. But he wanted to use my body and then just left me lying there alone like a piece of garbage.

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  • He's a loser.. Keep wearing no panties. That's hott

  • Everyone is raised different and has different ideas about stuff. I personally think nudity is only a big deal when someone makes a big deal of it.

  • Cuz he's gay

  • o yes that is very hot

  • Your so Hott baby xoxoxoxo

  • OMG! I would so love you being that way! I'd probably do naughty things back to you! 😊

  • He was he douche.

    I'm more comfortable without clothes, I don't wear them when I'm on my own, and would ideally be able to be naked with a girlfriend when we're alone. (Doing non sexual things, obviously we'd be naked for sex.)