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  • 1) bdsm isn't a 'yes' or 'no' thing. It's a range or practices, any of which require consent from all parties involved. even if they've consented to one thing, doing something else without consent because they're 'doing bdsm' isn't bdsm, it's abuse.
    2) even with consent, parties in bdsm should give serious consideration to safety. lots of people are comfortable with bruising, but more extreme stuff is likely a bad damn idea even if you both find it hot.
    3) knife play is not very common even among people into bdsm, and even people who do knife play i think more wave it around and potentially make very small cuts. but that alone is considered very extreme.
    4) people often ask if certain desires in a bdsm context are a red flag. For most, i say no. Stabbing? I'd be a little concerned with a partner who got a sexual thrill from stabbing people. For those interested, i'm told being really into choking partners is more of an actual red flag for violence then some other things.

Most Helpful Guy

  • There is a sub category of BDSM that involves "knife play" but that's usually just cutting and most don't play that way.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Stabbing, no. But knife play is a thing. Sometimes cutting. But of course it has to be on the menu for the recipient and 100% consensual. Not to mention safe words, etc. And the dom needs to know what the f**k he's doing.

  • Stabbed? Like being shanked? Ugh I guess it’s bdsm but to the extreme please don’t do that tho that seems awful n gory. U can get injured badly if stabbed in the wrong spot lol.

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  • I don't understand the question.

  • As an English sentence?

    • The only stabbing allowed is that with a pork sword.

  • Who the fuck is stabbing you?

    • The guy with the Pork Sword

  • For some that might be okay. But it's not a healthy thing. Even for BDSM.

  • No its not normal.

  • Not to my BDSM game it isn't. I have internal organs.

  • No. That is very dangerous.

  • No, that's attempted murder.

  • BDSM is just a bunch of insecure people who don't know how to fuck

  • wait what?

  • Wtf.🙁 No.

  • No it should NOT include stabbing, cutting, burning, open wounds or any type of torture that may result in permanent damage or death

  • you win weirdest question of the day. But no, stabbing is not typically included. Some do like light cutting and knife play though.