Is it insensitive to get mad at your girlfriend for refusing sex when she's on her period?

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  • Yes. Period sex is messy and I can understand why women wouldn't want to have sex on their period. If my girlfriend told me no then I would shrug it off. Heck we don't have sex much since she started taking birth control. That part is frustrating because I feel like she's not attracted to me. Anyways, sorry for the tangent, but that's my answer.

  • Very insensitive. While I know plenty of people that enjoy period sex I also know plenty that don’t. Us guys don’t fully understand what a woman may be going through during that time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, I believe so. And immature of them. Sounds like they're treating it as rejection, an excuse, but it's just a basic, common situation, nothing complicated or underhanded.

  • Those who do that are assholes... 😡

    • Some men really don't get it..

    • Find someone who understands that... Becoz he is the one who deserves u. 👍

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  • Mad, no. Frustrated? Yes. Just put down some old towels and go to it. God gave us washing machines for a reason.

  • A little bit.
    That said, you're the one that's loosing out I think.
    Period sex can be really amazing, and can even help you a little bit with the cramps.

    • You're not familiar with the severity of my cramps. I get hospitalized some months.

    • True, I'm not. Hum... Saw a video by a girl describing something like that a couple of days ago. Give me a moment to find it

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  • Very insensitive honestly, you don't know how she's feeling or what she's going through while on her period, it's ridiculous to get mad if she doesn't want sex

  • I would never want sex when I'm on my period

  • Not if she accepted sex the month previously. If the rules changed he’s right to be upset

    • Your level of discomfort varies from month to month. It is unrealistic to assume because I had sex with you last month I'll be physically able to do so every single month from that point on.

    • Assumptions and expectations are two different things. I agree with you that it’s unreasonable to assume if you’ve had sex 19 months in a row the 20th month you assume sex is a given. However it is reasonable to have that expectation based on the previous 19 times and in life when our expectations are not met it creates frustration. Now his decision to cause that frustration to manifest as anger directed at you is insensitive however it is justified for him to feel frustration as he can’t simply turn off his emotions.

    • you're always making me think hard EC!

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  • No. It's a shitty thing to do to get mad at anyone just for refusing sex. No one is entitled to your body ever.

  • Yeah it is.

  • Yes it means ur an ass who only think about yourself

  • It is not.

    • Why so?

    • I misread your question. I added "not" to it. Of course it is insensitive.

  • Yes it is. I never bugged my wife during her period. I would just take matters in my own hands (pun intended) until it was ready for action

  • I will olso, there is no any reson not to do it and are more benefices to do it then not to.

  • OFCOURSE.
    Disgusting too

  • i think you can be bummed out that she doesn't want sex but being "mad" at her is too much. it's not like she does that to be mean or whatever.

  • Ask to have shower sex in bathroom.
    Its fun and clean and great during periods.

  • During period no sex. That's what you should be doing.

  • I think it is. Periods can come with pain and other complications. Sex should be the last thing on the mind when a woman is in her period.

  • Yes. Not into that anyway too messy...

  • Yes, it's her choice.

  • No.
    Maybe he would rather have the other reason for NOT having your period?

  • To be perfectly honest it's annoying but it doesn't mean that it is a deal breaker.

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