Is it just two people being horny or sexual chemistry if you feel really turned on/excited when sexting?

When i was sexting someone i had this sexual tension/excitement I've never felt before with someone while sexting.. the sex wasn't the greatest though. He felt it too
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We were in a relationship for 6 months, in the beginning the sexting was amazing. We both felt this sexual tension. We got excited and everything sounded amazing, phone sex was hot too but when we had sex it was awkward. Especially being my first time and he hasn't done it in awhile. He was small and i didn't feel anything and i was nervous as well among other things
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  • We are leki walking sponge chemistry it's because we are made energy energy can do anything and everything I can guarantee you that if you and I started talking right now you would have this feeling flowing through you it would just be so unreal beautiful people call it chemistry its energy our energy is our teacher it's our guide our bodies are our Temple it houses something very special it houses our soul our spirit and our energy energy Never Dies when we pass away we need our body behind and we become this little ball of light it's an orb energy force wherever we go it will take our soul or spirit everything that we have done everything that we know with it it is something that is very very special and beautiful but if you I understand it I know this all sounds crazy to but if you can understand what it really is like I said you and I could talk and it would be a feeling that you've never ever felt before or maybe have it would just send you to the Moon we can start sexting and it would become so intense Jehovah Jireh start shaking that's how do you have an orgasm you would have phone sex is even better because our energy through vibration can actually hear each other so that way we feel each other even better I guarantee one two three orgasms intense unbelievable orgasms and you would even say it's better than sex that's crazy that's hard to believe but I guarantee you is 100% the truth why don't you understand all the things that energy can do it will totally just change your whole outlook on everything it is the most beautiful feeling I've ever felt in my life it is the hottest most passionately most giving the most just the best of everything and it becomes very intense see now I can feel your energy just through the words that I read on your page I can almost tell you exactly who you are because I can feel your energy that's hard to believe it sounds crazy but it is true I hate when I get these questions because I have said it so many times end I hate saying that because people don't understand it there's a lot of people to do other empaths they understand it because they live it every day 2 and I kind of have a feeling that you might even be an empath that's the reason why I'm still talking to me usually I would just say nevermind you don't understand it forget it but I think you do understand it and I think that's cool and if you are an empath and I know for a fact you understand it you want to try something send me a message if you want to end this try something cuz I feel like a big trying to say what I'm trying to say it all sounds crazy but it's not and I think what it is is a for one person to try it I guess I'm asking you if you want to and now that I think about it I don't really have to prove anything because I know it already but I want you to know it so you understand it I guess hello anyway that's my take on it

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  • So you were sexting and it felt great and then you got together in person, did the horizontal mambo, and it was just "meh?"

    • So you only did it once? How small was he when erect? If it was your first time, the only thing you have for comparison may be porn, which is very unrealistic.

    • We did it three different times that I can remember and he was around the size of a baby carrot and size of a pinky when he wasn't so errect. That kind of small.

    • The only think that matters to any extent is how big he is when erect. Some guys shrink to 1" when flaccid and become 5½" when erect.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe more of a mental connection. Maybe talk to each other about what you like and try again!

    • First times are always awkward. More foreplay helps. Are you willing to try again?

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  • Well it sounds like what he was saying was exactly what you wanted to hear but saying something and doing it are two different things

  • Back in my day we called it phone sex but it was defiantly sexual chemistry.

  • sounds like horniness but if y'all have feelings for each other even after climax then thats good

  • A little bit of both

  • yes sexting is amazing sometimes

  • I'm gonna say both, and I think the allure of feeling horny around him wore off after you slept with him.

  • well either improve it with lots of foreplay or move on

  • Horny lust and sexual chemistry

  • They are just horny.

  • Sexual chemistry only apply when both are in real. Sexting and reality is different

  • It depends on so many factors. The talk. When you've had sex last. How you treat each other. What you say...