Is it love or lust?

[Anonymous]

I remember a girl I used to talk too would always bring up blowjobs but would always mention with no sex or nothing, just a blow job, I talked to her for a while and shit but is that coming from love or lust because I feel like it's really easy to confuse the two, maybe she had a bj fetish? I spoke to her for like a year but nothing ever happened but if a girl can give head without getting anything in return, what would that mean?

[User20004]

I’m not really the kind of girl who messes around with a lot of guys but she definitely had an interest in you. She wanted to make you feel pleasure but if that’s all she talked about with you. Then it was probably lust. If I really like someone of course I’ll like to do stuff with them but I’ll like to know their personality too and everything about them.

[Asker]

If it's not all she talks about then where does that stand?

[User20004]

Well, not sure. Every girl is different you try asking her directly. Girls usually make it clear when their not interested.

[Asker]

I know she was interested but the thing is I don't know if its just her lusting

[Markm3212]

boring... dont get me wrong BJ's are great and i like them, but they are just a foreplay to the better game or to be switched around and have a 69er so you both get pleasure

[Asker]

Okay

[JoyGirl]

Lust.

[In_Trance]

lust