Is it me why he takes longer to finish?

[Anonymous]

He’s 25 and it used to take 5-7 mins to make him finish and he claimed it was so good then he got used to it and now it’s 10 mins. But he told me between 14-18 he came super easily during blow jobs and always finished but with me it’s a task. Is it me? The last person clearly did so much for him and I don’t really?

He also always feels the need to tell me when I slightly hurt him during a blow job like if it’s super late so I’m tired and barely bump my teeth or if I’ve had a drink and I’m not as in control. If I was to tell him the amount he hurt me with his hands or made it feel like a drs examination he’d be shocked but I stay quiet cos I know obviously he didn’t mean it. But he feels the need to let me know and it kills my mood entirely and I genuinely hate it and want to stop instantly when he does it because he acts like a little bitch instead of just saying you did that. He goes “ouch” and makes a face. He also felt the need to tell me this person between 14-18 who obviously never drank and wouldn’t be nearly as tired as all the responsibilities I have didn’t do this as much.

Is it normal for guys to take longer during blow jobs as they get older.

He also gets “used to everything”. So at the start of us he’d finish super easily and every time. I didn’t even need to use my hand. But that would never ever happen now. Then he took longer, things that were “amazing” for him aren’t. Is that normal?

[summiter]

I think it is somewhat normal and it is in no way your fault. When guys are teenagers they can cum very quickly whether it is from sex or a handjob or masturbation. Try some more foreplay... start with a slow handjob and get him close to an orgasm then try sex or a bj... it will work! How often are you two having sex? Does he return the favor?

[Anonymous]

Nope. That shit is not normal. He’s highly critical of everything you’re doing when he should be guiding you so you can be a better lover. You’re supposed to guide you’re partner, not critique them.



I dated a man like this. He was shallow and critical. He also made faces that would make me disgusted. Let me tell you sis; you need to run the other way. Real men aren’t like this.

[Asker]

Yeah he’s critical of me in every single way. Always needs to tell me I’m not a 10 and he deserves one.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn girl, I’m telling you my ex was like that too! Men really do have the audacity lol. Leaving my ex was the best thing I ever did. I know it’s easier said than done, but no one deserves to put up with a man who makes them feel less than. He’s obviously insecure and projecting onto you. You’re a 10 and he’s a 0.

[agonz914]

I think it's both of you. Maybe more communication. You should voice when something doesn't make you feel good. He isn't a mind reader.

[Markm3212]

id stop giving if all he is going to do is act like a baby and make noises and funny faces. he should be pleased that he gets it in the first place

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who asked you out