Yeah that is mean to do to him. Not only are you denying him sex, as well as causing him to experience pain in his genitals, you're actually having fun while doing it. You're relishing in the face that you're inflicting pain onto someone else. That is a bitch move. If you don't want to have sex with him, then stop winding him up and frustrating him.
Personally, if I was the guy and you were doing that to me, I would have dropped you in an instant. Not worth being with a woman who takes pleasure inflicting pain onto me via blue balls.
Does he know you aren't ready for sex yet. If he isn't expecting sex each time, it can be fun, if he is though, it's being an asshole.
yeah he knows
Then have fun. If you were teasing him and making him think you may have sex that'd be different, but I bet he's having just as much fun with the teasing aspect because he knows it won't end in sex yet.
thank u bro🙏🏻 and i hope so
Yeah, not nice. Guy wants to stop havin' blue balls and you ain't lettin him. Not very nice to do, it's like telling a kid he can play video games if he can find the needle in the haystack. But there was no needle. >:c
You're fine, it's probably the guys saying that it is not a move to do. Because they want you doing something more but if he doesn't like it he can just go away
It was just called flirting before guys tried to make up something
thank u bae🙏🏻
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It is mean but if you guys are on the same page with you not ready for sex, then it's an accepted frustration. Maybe you guys can do something that isn't sex to maybe ease his frustrations if it's bothering him.
As long as he knows that you don't want to have sex with him yet he can enjoy it since he doesn't expect sex
It’s very mean
fair enough
As long as you actually give into him at some point soon, it's fine. But blue balling a guy for more than a couple times is just wrong.
It’s mean tbh I had an ex who did this and she is an ex for a reason haha I get that you think you’re both on the same page etc but he will be genuinely upset that it’s not going any further
That is pretty mean. But kind of in a fun way. Teasing is great and all, and its perfectly ok if you don't want to have sex with him just yet. But maybe give him a handjob at least? Lol
lol true I'll do that next time!
Nice! He'll appreciate that
Frustrating might be a better word.
To actually blueball is mean. But just making out and setting boundaries is legit.
oh thank u! i think its number 2 ^^
Then ya you are all good. Have you told him when you will feel comfortable having intercourse?
by the way blue balling can be a bad move if you lead the guy on thinking he will be having sex only to shut him down literally when he’s hard and getting ready
I don’t get the blue ball thing. Like, if a girl starts and doesn’t finish the job I’m taking over. I have to problems with that. I think is super hot to be watched.
I love that.
Yes it's mean... But there are plenty of guys who are into it and enjoy a lot of tease and denial. If you're entertained by it you should lookup that sort of play and the two of you can be intimate without really having sex.
Lol you be jumped on and taken my cock
Not cool. At least blow him or give him a handjob or something. It's fine once in a while if that gets you off, but help him bust a nut once in a while.
Blue balls are not a thing.
We can always just jerk off.
You should probably talk to him about that. If you're not ready for it and he is. The nicest thing to do would be yo be honest and break it up
You're just a tease but that's kinda hot tbh
He will just empty his balls somewhere else.
idrc about that we're just friends
Then it doesn't really matter.
exactly 🙏🏻
Women like you are called "rape victims"
no? wth
You keep teasing a guy without offering him release and that's what happens.
he's a normal guy i promise u he's not gonna do that.
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