Is it normal for a dad to masturbate when I come home to visit from college?

My dad is 63 and kicked my mom out two years ago and won't even let us talk about her. My sister and I took his side at first, but now we miss her. He paid for our college so we can't say anything to him. Whenever me or my sister come home to visit from college we hear him masturbating in the shower early in the morning when he thinks we are sleeping. Is he thinking about us when he does it, or is that just what dads do in the shower every morning? Please? I really need to know
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  • How do you know he only jerks off when you guys get there? He probably does it when you aren't there either.

    You are no way correlated to his spank off.

    Unless he watches you in the shower? Which isn't the case.

    Stop spying on your dad you weirdo

  • You can hear him in the shower? He must be loud to hear it in there? Why is it so surprising that someone, even your dad, would masturbate in the shower? We all do it so it shouldn't be surprising, but a little strange that he is so loud about it

    • I really doubt that he think s about you unless he does or says other weird sexual stuff that is directed to you. If he does that kind of stuff, then i would be worried

  • Don't flatter yourself. He masturbates if you're home or not it's natural. In no way does it have anything to do with you two and you're probably the farthest thing from his mind when he's in there.

    • I don't know who you are, anonymous, but I love you for using the same line as me. lol

    • Lol thanks :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Does he do this when you AREN'T there?

    Oh... you don't know?

    Ok, of course you don't. So you assume he doesn't. And assume he is thinking of you.

    Daddy issues much?

  • "Is he thinking about us when he does it"

    Are.
    You.
    Fucking.
    Serious?

    Holy fuck.

    It's part of his daily routine. Don't flatter yourself.

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  • That's just what he does every morning. Maybe not always in the shower, but one would think that with the shower going you wouldn't hear him. I'm still amazed how quiet your showers/loud your father must be.

  • Masturbation is normal. You only notice because you're there, and you've come to know that guys do it. Let him do it, and don't think he's doing it just because you're there. I bet you he does it everyday.

  • Is this a serious question?

    Well, just in case it is... is it normal for him to masturbate? Yes. Is he thinking about you? No.

  • Probably what he does every morning. Has nothing to do with you.

  • His sexual habits arnt going to change just because your home.

  • This is probably a routine of his. He most likely does it when you guys are not around.

  • He Has Urges Just Like Any Other Person.
    Masturbation Is Great When You're Not In A Relationship, Couples Also Masturbate Together.
    Highly Doubtful He Is Thinking Of You!

  • Why on earth is your first thought that he's masturbating about you? sicko

  • That doesn't mean he's thinking of you. Not at all. Could be some old lady from bingo who knows? He's old yes but still human