Is it normal for a guy not to want sex only bj’s?

My boyfriend always wants oral never sex. I asked him why he never wants to have sex with me. He says “He’s too tired” but still want a bj. If I tell him I’m horny he will have sex with me. But never actually wants sex ever.
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  • Talk with him more about it and find out his thought process. There will be a reason. Maybe worried about pregnancy? If he really is tired, then maybe just being a bit selfish and wants pleasure, but doesn't want to have to worry about yours. Or maybe just selfish and lazy in general? Or, maybe he find the sex boring (likely not, but a possibility), in which case that's easily fixable. Talk about it and MAKE the sex great. But there will be a reason. If he says he's tired, then he's probably just a little bit lazy and doesn't want the "work" of full sex.

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  • Seems odd to me. Does he give you head too?

    A lot of people ask questions on GAG like yours. I always reply "If this doesn't change, are you willing to continue with this person for the rest of your life?" How do people end up in unhappy relationships for decades? One day at time. You've made your desires known, he's not satisfying them. Are you willing to be sexually frustrated for the next 30 years?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes it sounds like he just doesn't want to put in the effort to make you feel good and thats bad of him. Laziness and needing to relax is okay from time to time. But not this often.

  • it's pretty normal for guys to want only blowjobs... i think you have to be good at giving them... but i kind of like giving them so it's not a problem for me.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Stop giving him blowjobs and then you will see him wanting to fuck your brains out

  • B. J. s are a form of sex.

  • Not abnormal but not uncommon either. Some guys can have ED or a low libido for various reasons. A BJ addresses both problems. Initiating BJ can get us hard and horny.

  • Dump this asshole...
    You deserve the guy who humilate you on bed 😘

  • He should want to make you feel good too. He's being selfish.

  • Sounds like he’s lazy.

  • No, but you must give amazing blow jobs.

  • When he only wants a Blowjob he's very selfish, I prefer when a girl orgasms and cums inside my hot wet mouth she always tastes so good

  • Time to find another guy who knows how to use his cock in your pussy.

  • he is lazy does not want to do the work time for a new boyfriend

  • Totally normal. I also prefer blowjobs. And when we have sex I prefer to cum in her mouth. I usually refuse to penetrate a hairy girl: oral sex until she waxes.

  • Sure, you can't get pregnant from sucking dick.

  • BJ= receiving pleasure
    Sex= both parties need to work for pleasure
    clearly he is lazy and doesn't want to work for pleasure