Is it normal for a guy to be in a heterosexual relationship but want to explore his own body/sexuality?

For a straight guy to explore his body sexually/anal
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  • Well you've got a lot of support here. Do you feel better yet?

    Online, under pseudonyms, people are free to be their most free selves. Most people keep this account here separate from their 'regular' life, no crossover, so that they can express these opinions and desires like you have. Who are you telling these things to that they react this way? Irl? Online? Friends? Lovers? Strangers?

    Anyway, don't worry about it. Guys like to make fun of others guys, especially when they're young and still growing up (or ones that stay a permanent 'man child.' They suck. Just don't associate with those types, if you can help it.) You know, how a lot of guys when they are young try and give themselves a blow job, to see what it's like, and their friends will try to ruin it for him by saying he's gay.

    Sexuality, gender roles, they're all going through a slow transformation. Some people are not happy about this. They want things to stay as they were 'traditional values' and all that. But some people were never happy with that. It was too restrictive. They felt like outcasts. Time's are changing and everyone's got an opinion about that. Maybe you just need to associate with a different class of people. Many things that were once niche are no longer, they've become more mainstream. Maybe you just have to learn when and who to trust. Read the room. Understand?

  • It's always normal to explore yourself. Plenty of straight men like anal. It's just another form of stimulation

    • Loads of people say im gay for doing it

    • If you like it during masturbation or a woman doing it to you then it's no gayer than anything else

    • It doesn't make you gay to enjoy something that feels good. if they say its gay that's because they are to worried about what people might say than their own pleasure

Most Helpful Guys

  • It feels good why try it. it doesn't make you gay to try it. even if it did who cares have fun try new things. If you like a guy to fuck your ass it doesn't mean you are gay. what if you like to get fucked while you fuck ur wife.

  • We're creature that seek out pleasure and anal is pleasurable, explore those feelings see where it leads dont fear it allow fate to guide you to your trust self x

    • i have tried it but when i say i have, people think im gay

    • Well obviously but that's because people dont understand what bisexuality really means because folks be uneducated which is why the entire LGBTQI+ community exists to help educated and protect

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  • It's totally normal to explore yourself and discover what brings you pleasure. Anal is pleasurable to a lot of guys, there's nothing wrong with wanting to explore

  • Sure. It's your body. Do whatever the hell you want.

    • But provided you're in a relationship, your partner should be comfortable with it.

  • 100% yes. I've done it and still do the odd time. Once you're comfortable within yourself its great fun

  • You wanna get fucked in the ass? Try a dildo first.

    • I tried solo yesterday

    • Just don't tell anyone. It's embarrassing. LOL Surely you could get an odd buddy or two to do you. OMFG

    • not really

  • yes. this is how you find out what you like and dislike

  • Bro thats gay. Stop watching porn. Abstain. and reset

  • Explore your self sexually play with your penis and butt-hole I explore my sexuality with my self all the time. 💞 It's perfectly normal. 💞

  • I think so, I'm still exploring myself these days.

  • There is nothing wrong with exploring your own body. It has nothing to do with sexuality or sexual preference.

  • everyone should explore their sexuality

  • some guys do want to explore

  • I am sexually attracted to only women I can do a lot of things with them but I also love sucking some good dicks