Is it normal for a guy to do this after being hit in the groin?

I was recently attacked while walking to my car from work. Long story short, this guy came up behind me and was like, “Hi, beautiful” and put his arms around me. Then he started kissing my neck. I was in complete shock and could barely think straight at first. Then I felt him start to grope my breasts and that’s when I realized I had to try to fight him off before he drags me off to god knows where. He had his arms wrapped around me and my arms were pinned to my sides, which put my hand conveniently next to his crotch area. I was able to slide my hand behind me into his crotch, dug my fingers in, and squeezed like my life depended on it. He immediately stopped kissing me and flew into a rage and started cussing at me while still holding on to me. He had tight fitting jeans on so I knew my hand was in the right area, but his jeans were super thick and I wasn’t sure if I was squeezing hard enough. So I dug my fingers in even deeper and squeezed harder. That’s when he grunted, doubled over, and I started feeling his jeans become wet. I realized he was actually peeing himself. It wasn’t a small amount either. It was dripping down his legs and all over the floor. Luckily, he began to sink to the floor after that and I was finally able to get away. In all my years of taking women’s self-defense classes, I’ve never heard of an attacker wetting himself from a groin strike. Is it normal for a guy to do this after being hit in the groin or did I end up damaging something “down there”? I really hope I did permanently damage him to be honest.
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  • I wouldn't say that it's "normal", but if I had to guess, it's probably not super rare either. Just as many people wet themselves out of fear, I could see a guy peeing due to unexpected intense pain - especially if his bladder was already very full and he was needing to pee anyway.

    I don't really have a lot of personal expertise in this area, though - I would imagine you'd get the best information by talking to a bunch of EMTs, as they're the ones who would see a lot of victims, and could speak to their experiences.

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  • I think he had a full bladder to begin with. By you crushing his balls he lost control and just started peeing.

    You did good. I'm proud of you. You are one cute woman not to be reckoned with. I'm really sorry you had to go through that but you obviously know how to defend yourself.

    • Thank you for the mho

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  • No, it was likely a trans man that you squeezed. When you hit a woman in the vulva, it is perfectly normal for her to piss herself, puke, belch, fart, cry, shit herself, fall over, and pass out. Men don’t do the same because the balls aren’t as weak as the vulva.

  • Wonder if he was drunk possibly.


    That or he was trying to pee on you to establish dominance.

    • Like the dog that he is.

    • That second part, wow 😂

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  • Could be that he had a full bladder when he assaulted you or that by inflicting pain in there he lost control of the sphincter and just let it all go.

    In any case, kudos for your quick thinking and being able to fight back. 👍

  • I have never attacked a woman and never given any of them a reason to attack me in that way.

  • It is normal for any human to lose control of their bladder when experiencing extreme trauma. As effective as that seemed to have been I think a knee or kick to the groin should have more immediate effectiveness.

  • Never heard of that.

  • He probbly had to pee pretty bad when you did that to him.

  • Did you shoot laser beams out of your eyes at him as he ran away? No groin strikes don't do that.

  • I don't know but nice shot lol

  • Actually sounds like you enjoyed it.

  • I wouldn't care if you did.

  • Good job defending yourself...
    I'd say it's normal to double over in pain since it's a form of trauma to that particular area.

  • Wow go you can't imagine how scared you where but done great. Good if hurt him down there or he pissed himself.

  • I don't know but good for you that you defended yourself :)

  • I'm not sure, this is the first time I'm hearing about this.

    Did he looked like he was high?

  • like anyone doesn't know you're a guy with a ballbusting fetish. rofl. You post these a lot, dude.

  • Sure, don't you know that pee is stored in the balls? 😂😂😂

    Good for you for fighting back 💪

  • It can happen probably from the pain but he deserved it, I don’t think it’s permanent damage though