Is it normal for a guy to get an erection so easily?

This guy (he’s 23) will get an erection so easily when we are together; I’m not complaining! All I have to do is hold his hand or hug him and I feel his boner. Are most guys like this?
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  • Remember, there's broad variation in what turns people on. Some people are easily aroused, others aren't.

    An erection is a postcard that says he likes you. If he's a new partner, it's more common that he'd be easily aroused. Over time he might calm down. But maybe he'll always be thrilled to simply hold your hand or have you hug him.

    I think it's a great compliment. Be glad. As long as he isn't pressing you for immediate sex and just lets it lie while you make the salad and serve dinner, I think you might give HIM a compliment about his wonderful penis.

    Tell him how lovely a compliment you feel it is. Most men are embarrassed about their erections, especially if they happen easily and somewhat inappropriately. Tell him he's blessed, and you recognize this! Bet he loves you all the more.

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  • Erections are a weird thing. Guys get them when they wake up while there is no one there. So its not all about being attracted. In your situation it is a comfort thing. He is probably going through different emotions and his body may not know how to handle the situation. So when brain #1 overloads then brain #2 acts as back up haha. Im sure over time his body will accept the hand holding and hugs but those are probably good triggers for him right now.

  • Yes... all young guys get a boner fairly easy. A lot depends on how long it has last been since they last had sex or masturbated. (Yes all young guys masturbate a lot... but most will never admit it!) How is your sex life with him? Maybe increase the frequency? Do you ever go for round 2 or 3 with him?

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  • yes its normal, start panicking when he can't get it up lol

  • Yup, totally normal.
    i think that was me at 23, but I’m more controlled now

  • Yup pretty normal especially if he is very attracted to you his errection is probably on a hair trigger

  • I still get hard easily, I think it's normal.

  • Normal for a young inexperienced guy.

  • That's normal yes.

  • Nope, he is a young guy.
    It doesn't take much at all and there is Mr. Stiffness, all ready to go.
    They kind of have a mind of their own.

  • Yes, I was like that too, Sometimes it would just happen.

  • It probably just means that he loves you or, is VERY horny!

  • Easy now, hard later.
    Wait, no...

  • I don't believe you. but he's probably going through a dry spell or something
    End it for him!
    :)

  • Well he is still pretty young and it's easier for younger guys to get erection and it might means he really likes you and thought and feeling of your touch turns him on.

  • He's really into your look/body

  • Yes. That definitely possible. I got one when slow dancing with a girl. Lol. It’s embarrassing.

  • I can get an erection pretty easily with my girlfriend, but not every time we hug or hold hands.

  • Yep, hug me and watch what happens… lol. ;)

  • yes, a slight "Breeze" can make a young man hard, a Pretty Girl is better at it

  • Yep of course

  • Yeah it's normal. I know it from myself.

  • I’m in my 40s and I still get them really easily, so

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