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Is it normal for a guy to get off the phone with you to masturbate?

we aren’t dating and I’m not entirely sure if we a flirting to date he compliments me a lot like tells me I have a cute voice or pretty eyes, he tells me I’m cute and all and I liked him cuz he doesn’t say that stuff like “sexy” “hot”. he sorta made it clear he likes me and today we were on call playing Minecraft I mean we are both 18 but we play with his younger brother but while we were playing he said he has to go. And I asked him why, just so I could know how long he would take. He told me to use the bathroom. And I was like, why are you hanging up to use the bathroom. Then he said cuz he might have to do something else. And he wouldn’t tell me what exactly until I kept asking him. And it was to jerk off. Tbh I did get a little upset that he was hanging up to do that. A part of me feels like I shouldn’t be upset about it but I honestly didn’t see him as that type of guy he seemed really sweet and caring and just different but it’s almost like him jerking off was more important than spending time together.

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  • ... obviously, I don't know both parties involved here, so I can only say so much. But, and only you can find out if he has been genuine this whole time or not, it's possible that he is turned on by you meaning he was probably embarrassed to admit it since your both are still so young, and he was trying to step away to masturbate to you.

    The only reason I bring this up, is I've been put in the opposite situation where a very close female friend of mine had a massive crush on me at the time. We used to game nightly together with a close group of friends, but by the the end of the night, the last two on was usually just us, and we got to know each other well. Well... I found out during a live call (cameras on, everyone chitchatting and just hanging out) that she had gone off camera and masturbated to me. Difference between our two stories is she told me about it the following day, which we had a very through conversation about. Your friend doesn't sound like he knows how to open up about it if thats the case.

    Now, again, I don't know this guy. It's possible this wasn't the case, but if he was being genuine, I'd say get to the bottom of it and find out. Also... If you like him and he likes you, and he was being genuine... Well, that might be a conversation for you all to sit down and have, especially since your both legal adults. Just something to think about.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Absolutely not normal. I’ve never done something like that, and never will. Sounds like potentially a sex addiction. But I don’t know him, nor am I an expert, so who knows.


    But although sex and intimacy is important in a relationship, it’s not everything. And sexual pleasure should NEVER EVER take priority over work, friendships, and just living life.


    So yeah. Just kinda weird & creepy. Not normal, and not something I’d personally ever do. I value and prioritize my friendships more than that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would never associate with a creep like that. Some men are so immature.

  • they will pretty much do it while they're on the phone with you

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  • I would venture to guess that it is nothing personal. I need to get off at least 3 times a day at my age (52) just to keep sane. At 18, without exaggeration, anywhere between 10-15 times a day. Just a horny teenager most likely. Could he have handled it a bit better to not offend you? Sure, but he's 18.

    The expression we used back in the day was, "Young, dumb and full of cum".

  • He just sounds immature and inexperienced with women.

  • Why hang up? Why not to the sound of your voice?

  • It's odd that he would feel the need to tell you that, but I'm discovering that a lot of men (people in general, actually) are socially retarded.

  • Were you wanting him to stay on the phone while you listen to him and jerk off?

    • No, I made it clear a while ago that I don’t care about that kind of stuff at all and I wouldn’t want to be sexual with anyone like that until I know they are staying in my life for a really long time.

    • Well then he probably just needed to release and didn't want to bother you.

  • I think that's not normal. I would never do that. Like if my girlfriend made it clear sex was off limits I would take care of myself in my own time.

  • Would you rather him have stayed on and did it while talking to you? As I joke, I would have asked "want to help?" Maybe he was feeling really horny, or maybe you have a sweet, n sexy voice and it drives him crazy and he couldn't control himself. Or maybe he said that to cover up, that he had to go take a crap, and didn't want you to hear that.

  • I not sure I would just hang up on a girl to jerk off unless she would want to have some phone sex to get off together. I not sure I be so honey I hang up to jerk off and it is a little rude.

  • No, you take care of that while you’re still on the phone…like a true gentleman.

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